I juste noticed that when talking to Jack about Love, Dean smiles the same way Jensen does when he talks about Misha and Danneel (Also known as “The Misha’s face”)
And now I wanna die 😩 .
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destielette1 replied to your post “It's fucking hilarious how you don't even have to give a hint...”
I sent the comment too fast anyway i was saying that the show and the fandom are agonizing, that’s a fact , I don’t think they can save it now , not with these writers , and not with the main reasons that made the show go to its 15th (no matter what the incest shippers say) are being treated like shit and literally killed, and I’m talking about both Cas and destiel.
We lost so many good people , so many excellent meta writers , like awed frog for example, people are fed up, thousands Shippers get fed up of their queer baiting and left the show, and it shows in the ratings. And the way the show been pandering to incest Shippers lately made things even uglier , I will always cherish Cas and Destiel no matter what , but I will not keep a good memory of Spn. I always said that a show success doesn’t lie in its longevity but in its ending ,
The shows that end badly are quickly forgotten , the main actors of these show often pay for the writers errors and they rarely find other significative roles again, just look at the actors of lost, this getting really long , I needed to someone who is not an hypocrite , thank you for trying to stay honest and don’t ever change , love you 🌹
I hope you don’t mind I put all your comments together because I think they are on point. And coming from you, and how much I know you love Destiel and Cas are incredible important right now.
Under the cut the rest because it got long... as usual...
I agree almost completely in all that you say. And I say almost because I think when spn ends is not going to be forgotten or forgiven. It’s going to stay in the history of queerbaiting tv forever. It’s already happening even before the show ends, the only thing that maintains it like you say, it’s destiel and Cas, and I’m saying this not as a shipper or a Cas’ fan, it’s simple facts. We don’t have to search too hard for these facts either, destiel has been on lists with otps and canon ships on major sites for quite a while now, everybody knows that making a list with deancas is surely going to get thousands of clicks, the polls always have them for the same reason. The amount of fics, art, codas, metas, articles about them is incredible. And we are talking about a ship that is not canon, and that Dabb made sure to kill it dead. Imagine if things were different, just imagine.
That’s why I say that spn is going to go infamous in that respect, is going to be up there with Sherlock, and the meltdown johnlock created is going to pale with the one we are going to have with spn. It’s going to be hard af to watch and I have been saying “please don’t listen or read meta bs that is is lying to you because is not healthy” like a parrot, because I KNOW some people are going to get hurt so so much.
I’m glad that I can finally started to distance myself a little from the show and from the ship, it’s really liberating not to be so down or angry all the time. Or just waiting for my 3 minutes of Cas every now and then just to be disappointed again, I’m not letting tptb do that to me ever again. And yeah it’s fiction, but fiction can hurt you too, can turn into an obsession, and that’s what happened with spn on so many levels... Tptb play with that constantly, and worst of all they know VERY WELL what they are doing. Metas like to talk about how “everything is so well crafted in the writer’s room!” and that “everything has a reason to be” yeah the reason is to keep fans watching, buying merch, going to cons, and spending money. Sorry not sorry, but spn at this point is so clearly just all about the money tptb can get out of fandom.
What is sad af, it’s the lost potential, spn could’ve been incredible, not only if destiel went canon, but if the writing wasn’t so shitty, repetitive and boring. Also metas likes to point out how “season 14 is all about characterization” lmao! If the 300th ep proved something is that they dgaf about characterization! They brought back John with a storyline that didn’t make sense AT ALL, it was pure fan service. They also like to point out how much the bros have expanded their family and “it’s not about only them anymore”. But again, the 300th proved them wrong, it’s all about blood family, it’s all about the bros (and I totally agree with you that we have so many wincest winks lately wtf). I have talked so many times why this is not going to change, that I feel the deja vu running through my veins. They have a formula, a formula that gave them 15 seasons, they are not going to change it, even if the ratings are down, they are stuck with their bs. Dabb’s era is the worst that I have seen, and I’m not afraid to say it. Even when I hated Gamble for so long, at least we had great eps now and then. But these last three years oh gods, they are so bad! They totally destroyed Cas and Dean, and deancas, and the myth arcs and lore were non-existent to them. Continuity? What’s that? And don’t make me talk about their obsession with abusive white males that they keep bringing back or giving a redemption arc too (ketch, john, nick/lucifer to name a few).
Ugh... there’s so much more to REALLY analyze about spn, instead of writing about parallels and the light, and the wardrobe. But alas, I’m no meta, and I’m really tired of all their bs. What I feel the most is the lost of great bloggers, friends and fans, I terribly missed them. Nowadays we have to go around social media, esp twitter, being really careful about what you say, otherwise the horde of positivity police will bury you shouting “you’re a casonly! you’re bitter and that is as bad as being a bronly! you’re the dark side of the fandom!” And that’s why metas and their positivity policing are also responsible for destroying fandom. It shows in the amount of blogs that are deleted or changed by fans, it shows in the mess that fanfiction is right now, it shows in the wars that we have and how much the fandom is divided. We have to thank them for that imo, I have seen them in action, I have experienced their policing. But idgaf about what they say about me or my little blog. I’m not shutting up, they can all go fuck themselves because I’m not forgiving or forgetting how much they clapped when tptb killed Cas in season 12. And they call US the dark side of the fandom? Lmao!
Sorry it go this long. But I’m venting and ranting, well you know me at this point. And I want to really thank you for your last words, because I know that we have different opinions on certain matters but you always showed me so much respect... I really appreciate it like you have no idea, because it shows me that we can all exchange opinions or think different but also we can be decent with each other. For me you’re one of the greatest in this fandom. I have to thank spn, despite everything, that I could meet people like you. All the hugs, and love you too.
So I found these pics side by side while searching for a gif on my iPad ( i think I saved them from twitter) and I’ve been laughing for the past hour and God knows I was in a really low mood all day .
I’m laughing because Cas and Dean are standing closer to each other than Priestly and Tish , I didn’t watch the movie but I’m pretty sure that at this moment they are already attracted to each other .
I also googled this pic and you know what was priestly saying to Tish :
1- Dear tumblr team : I hate you and I hope you all burn to crisps for what you did to my blog
2- I’m now at 110 followers and although I’m happy seeing that I’m (very very) slowly getting some of my followers back, thousands of them are still unaccounted for.
3- What kills me the most is the fact that some of my ex mutuals who are well aware of my situation still haven’t followed me back, and I really don’t know how to interpret this.
And every time i check my followers i find myself screaming
As you may already know by now, tumblr suddenly suspended my account @Destielette without giving me any reason , I’ve been writing to @staff and @support every day for 18 days , they never responded , I only received automatic responses.
All this time I was using my registered email address (the one associated with my tumblr account ) like they asked me in the support request.
Then
I decided to try from another email address , I sent the same complaint with all my informations but from a different email, and guess what ?
Four hours later , I get a response , from an actual human telling me that she was really sorry for what happened to my blog and that she really wants to help me getting back my blog but for that I have to write from my registred email .
Which I did, but again I received no response .
One day later, I replied to the (human) email I received in my unofficial email , I sent the same message from my two emails (the tumblr one and the other) .
I told her that I’ve been sending requests for 15 days from my registred email but that for a mysterious reason, the @support / @staff team never responded.
I received another response a few hours later from the same person to my unofficial email (nothing to the registred one) telling me that she doesn’t know why I never receive a response to my emails but that she can do nothing to help me as long as I keep writing to her from my unofficial email.
I’m now convinced that they blacklisted my registred email , which reinforces me in my doubts that I’ve been victim of a massive report compaign, maybe by the bronlies , or by some people on here who would do anything to keep the fandom in their la la land of over the top positivity and hate people like me who say out loud what hundreds of Cas fans and Destiel shippers think but fear to say.
Maybe I’m being a little paranoid but I don’t know what to think anymore , after the last event.
But I will stay on this site for now, for my loyal followers and friends but also out of spite against those who want me to disappear.
I’m also sad to say that I no longer have the same visibility as before on tumblr, so if you still want to enjoy my gifsets and edits , you need to follow my new account.
I will keep you informed of any changes or news by updating this post.
1- Dear tumblr team : I hate you and I hope you all burn to crisps for what you did to my blog
2- I’ve never related to Human!Cas more than when tumblr took down my blog, I’ll explain :
I was a famous blogger all powerful with my 12700 followers (powers/wings) and suddenly tumblr (metatron) took down my blog (grace) and now with my 52 followers I feel like I fell, just like Cas, no followers , no blog (no wings, no powers) and I’m in constant need of being told that I’m missed , that I belong here but the majority of my ex followers on here are ignoring my problem and some of them are acting like they never knew me and forgetting all the hard work I did the last 2 years for the fandom, I feel this lack of support like Cas when he was told by the being(s) he care the most about :
1- Dear tumblr team : I hate you and I hope you all burn to crisps for what you did to my blog
2- There are days when I feel that I can do it, i can rebuild my blog, I have to, I have many friends here who keep telling me that I’m needed and missed and want me to hang in there.Today is not one of those days.it doesn’t help that I f* hate Monday .
Today is one of those days where I find myself thinking that it’s not worth it, and seeing how tumblr is shittier every day more I’m starting to wonder if it’s not really
destielette1: replied to your post are we finding it ironic that Sara gamble has now...
@flyingcatstiel @justanearth-boundmisfit we were just talking about “realism” in fiction destielette1.tumblr.com… Why would I want to escape a dark a sad world to a fictional universe aven more sad and dark? I hate bad ending , one must be really masochist to love tragic endings
I don’t like tragic endings either, I totally prefer a happy one, because fiction is supposed to distract me for the pain and hurt the real life gets me. But I get the “dark side” of some shows, really I do, otherwise I wouldn’t be watching got, a show that kills main characters since season 1 and that, for sure, it’s going to be a bloodbath in its final season. I have watched shows that are truly painful, sad and heartbreaking, but I always felt that the story was really well constructed and that the final decision to, for example, kill a character, an important one at that, was really an addition to an excellent well written story, an end to a journey that was really well told or in the case of got with Ned’s death, a kick start to the whole conflict that came later.
BUT... when you give your audiences a death just for shock value, or when you repeat that story over and over again, like it’s the case of spn, because you’re out of ideas and you already know that works with a public that it’s used to that kind of trick... I call bullshit. I also call bullshit even more, when the one character you’re killing is part of an important ship (canon or fanon) and more so, if the ship is lgbt+, because it means that “bury your gays” is alive and doing well in a time when television writers should know better.
It the case of The Magicians, and good old Gamble, she has kept the same tricks under her sleeve it seems, since her time on spn. She just doesn’t know how to deal with an actor’s exit without killing them. And she knows pretty well, according to the interviews I have read, what they were doing to their audience and to a ship that was really important to so many people. Again she played, she promised, and in the end she delivered a low blow. Not to say that the only culprit is Sera, the other show runners, the writers, and the writer of the books that gave the go ahead are all at fault too. But Sera holds a special place in my memories, the bad ones, as she did this before to Castiel and Misha, so that’s why I’m concentrated on her.
TL;DR: tv shows can be dark, depressive, utterly realistic, and full of things that are going to bring us down. What matters is how that story is presented, developed and why the final destination is death. When you’re a show runner that can’t seem to give your mlm ships (twice in your career) nothing but a horrible, tragic ending just for shock value, you’re telling your audiences that they are not that important, and that for some reason lgbt+ ships need to keep having tragic endings. In an age when representation is key, that is incredible harmful and we should stop it.
