Destiny Stealers, Destiny Swappers and the reasons why I don't believe this works in the long term
As this concept is gaining attention from some groups of people on tiktok mainly
Hi everyone, as I was scrolling on tiktok I noticed that people started to mention about destiny stealing/destiny swapping that I found interesting that it gained attention from lots of people. It is like everybody needed for this to be coined as a term to mention. Because it happens, right? In the easiest and most common way, we tell a dream of ours to a friend and see that friend achieving it instead of us.
Although I think this is very common and that is one of the reasons why I do not EVER share my goals or inspirations with other people -who don't matter how close we are- , I also do believe that destiny swapping or destiny stealing comes with HUGE KARMA. Let me explain:
There are things that make each person with a character unique. People that are DESTINED to achieve big, receive big go through painful transformations most of the time. Those people who have big dreams to achieve; those are completely PERSONAL to them as a result of their own storyline, destiny of their lives. Therefore they dream what their soul craves. Copying their identity, or mimicking them, or trying to steal their dreams by achieving what they want to achieve first, WILL NOT BRING THEM GOOD IN THE LONG TERM.
Simply because, it is not what they think their soul wants AT ALL. In fact, I think people who copy or try to swap destinies unfortunately do not have a character, persona on their own. All of the desires or dreams a person has told you is unique to their own life experiences, and believe me, those dreams are a result of hardwork and suffering, and when they want to steal it, they simply miscalculate...
Being that person WITHOUT THE HARDWORK OR GOING THROUGH THEIR PAIN is what they are missing. So in turn, the universe, when they think they achieved/stealed the other person's destiny, will show them WHAT IT ACTUALLY MEANS TO BE THAT PERSON. Asking them "are you able to handle it?"
Those people who determined what they want to achieve most of the time spend a lot of time analysing, doing the inner work, understanding where they belong and what they want to do with what they HAVE in their hands in this lifetime. Trying to steal their spot WITHOUT GOING THROUGH what they had been through, I believe will only bring the consequences to the stealer.
Therefore, if you think someone wants to be you, or steal your spot and eliminate you completely, cut ties immediately and do not engage your energy field with them. If you think it already happened, just keep going on and wait, I guarantee you that the person who thought they swapped destinies will shrink in the long run, because that person does not know the ways you took to get where you are right now. So instead, wait, observe and think to yourself, "show me how it is to be like me."
Hope this makes sense to you. I wanted to write these down because I have lived this situations over and over in my life and wanted to give those with concern a little bit of relief that they are safe and the most important value in this life to achieve your dreams is through a great character that cannot be taken by anyone else, because it is completely yours for ever.