Oct 21, 2024
Destroy Stereotypes
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Destroy Stereotypes
I say “Be Yourself”
*** TRIGGER WARNING *** Stereotypes on the max, objectification of men and women, judgement, anorexia, alcoholism, rape, physical appearance, sexual orientation, plastic surgery, criticizing etc
I know there are a lot of trigger warnings and it’s a bit risky to upload something like this because people might be hurt but I felt the need to write down the words of two very important youtube videos. You can go watch them too if you haven’t already. They’re called “Be a lady they said” and “Be a gentleman they said”.
“BE A LADY”, they said.
“Your skirt is too short,
Your shirt is too low.
Don’t show so much skin,
Cover up,
Leave something to the imagination.
Don’t be a temptress,
Men can’t control themselves,
Men have needs.
Look sexy,
Look hoy.
Don’t be so provocative,
You’re asking for it.
Wear black,
Wear heels.
You’re too dressed-up,
You’re too dressed-down.
You look like you’ve let yourself go.”
“BE A LADY”, they said.
“Don’t be too fat,
Don’t be too thin.
Eat up,
Slim down.
Stop eating so much,
Order a salad,
Don’t eat carbs,
Skip desert,
Go on a diet.
God, you look like a skeleton,
Why don’t you just eat?
You look ametiated,
You look sick.
Men like women with some meat on their bones.
Be a size zero,
Be a double zero,
Be nothing,
Be less that nothing.”
“BE A LADY”, they said.
“Remove your body hair,
Bleach this,
Bleach that.
Eradicate your scars,
Cover your stretch marks,
Plump your lips,
Botox your wrinkles,
Lift your face,
Top your tummy,
Perk up your boobs.
Look natural.
You’re trying too hard,
You look over-done,
Men don’t like girls who try too hard.”
“BE A LADY”, they said.
“Wear make-up,
High-light your cheekbones,
Line your leads,
Fill in your brows,
Lengthen your lashes,
Color your lips,
Powder, blush, bronze, highlight.
Your hair is too short.
Dye your hair.
Not blue, that’s unnatural.
Look young,
Old is ugly,
Men don’t like ugly.”
“BE A LADY”, they said.
“Save yourself,
Be pure.
Don’t be a whore,
Don’t sleep around,
Men don’t like sluts.
Don’t be a prude,
Don’t be so up-tight,
Smile more.
Pleasure men,
Be experienced,
Be sexual,
Be innocent,
Be dirty.
Be the cool girl,
Don’t be like other girls.”
“BE A LADY”, they said.
“Don’t talk too loud,
Don’t talk too much,
Don’t be intimidating.
Why are you so miserable?
Don’t be a bitch,
Don’t be so bossy,
Don’t be so emotional,
Don’t cry,
Don’t yell,
Don’t swear.
Endure the pain,
Don’t complain.
Fold his clothes,
Cook his dinner,
Keep him happy,
That’s a woman’s job.
You’ll make a good wife someday.
Take his last name.
You have conated your name?
Crazy feminist.
Give him children.
You don’t want children?
You will someday,
You’ll change your mind.”
“BE A LADY “, they said.
“Don’t get raped,
Don’t drink too much,
Don’t walk alone,
Don’t go out too late,
Don’t dress like that,
Don’t get drunk,
Don’t smile at strangers,
Don’t go out at night,
Don’t trust anyone,
Don’t say ‘yes’,
Don’t say ‘no’.”
JUST BE A LADY”, they said…
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“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“You don’t earn enough,
You’re too weak,
You’re not ambitious.
Don’t reveal yourself,
Don’t show your emotions,
Don’t cry,
Man up!
Talk about your feelings,
Be sweet,
Be gentle.
Women like bad boys,
Women have needs.
Don’t flirt too much,
You’re pushy.
Look sexy,
But not too much.
Ladies like mystery”
“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Find a better job,
Find the best job,
Be successful,
Be rich.
You need to support your family,
That’s what real men do.
Women don’t like men who buy them drinks.
Gosh! You’re always working,
You should find a hobby.
Do you even know how to cook?
You should learn that,
Invite her out to a restaurant,
Pay the bill!
Learn how to dress well,
Learn how to speak well,
Learn how to treat a woman,
Learn how to be a man,
Stop following social norms.
Be a good father.”
“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Don’t be fat.
What are those tiny biceps?
Do you even lift?
You have man boobs.
Shave yourself,
You look gross!
You’re so obsessed with your body!
Women don’t like men who care too much about their bodies.
Take it easy,
Care about her,
Spend more time at home.
Go out with the boys,
Drink a glass of wine,
Drink whiskey,
Those cocktails are for women,
Drink expensive whiskey!
Cheers!
You’re an alcoholic,
Just like your father.
Why don’t you drink?”
“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Hold the door for her.
She’s a big girl,
She can open it for herself.
Be understanding,
Be a feminist.
Don’t be afraid of aging.
You’re twice her age!
Are you her father?”
“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Light up a cigar,
Play football,
Don’t be afraid of wearing pink.
Do you even like women?
Be a player,
She would never date a virgin,
Be her daddy,
Women like to be dominated.
Chase her!
She really wants to see your nudes,
It’s not big enough…”
“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Be brave,
Be tall,
Be smart,
Be compassionate,
Be handsome,
Be tough,
Be calm,
Be aggressive,
Be funny,
Be strong.
Just be yourself!”
“BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Start your own company”, they said.
“Be a fireman”, they said.
“Get a degree”, they said.
“Beat the status quo,
Be a surgeon,
Join the army,
Be a stay-at-home dad.”
“JUST BE A GENTLEMAN”, they said.
“Be a millionaire,
Be a billionaire,
Be a trillionaire.
Be humble,
Be great,
Make history,
Leave your mark,
Be amazing,
Be spectacular,
Be outstanding,
Be extraordinary,
One of a kind,
Remarkable,
Exceptional,
Astonishing,
Be anything!
Be everything!”
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Don’t be ladies.
Don’t be gentlemen.
Be human.
Every generation just gets worse and worse
at judging people for being different
Boys and flowers
I was gently reminded boys love flowers too so yeah.
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Credits: @whoviandoodler
honestly drarry shippers are some of the most optimistic people like if draco and harry can get along than so can we
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Beauty Is Relative
So I've been thinking about what beauty is alot, and I've decide that there are two main types of beauty: physical and mental, and both can broken down into smaller pieces. Physical: you look attractive TEMPTRESS-people who look sexually attractive/ are "smoking hot" MODEL- people who are very good looking but not in a slutty, tons of makeup way CUTE- people who are attractive but not beautiful, who look nice but in a adorable sort of way Mental- attractive because of personality or other qualities KIND- the sweet people that everyone loves STRONG- attractive because they are tough/independent SMART- smexy ATHLETIC- explains why the QB gets the girl CREATIVITY- daydreamers or artists or whatever can be super sexy DOMESTIC- some people just love someone who can cook and clean well (and men are attractive in this way too!) That's all I got. Feel free to critique.
