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[siplifeslowly]

The Most Dangerous Lie

The Most Dangerous Lie

Deception has incredible power. It has the power to shatter a lifetime of trust built in a matter of seconds. I respond viscerally at the scent of deception. For a good part of my life, I naively believed what people said, even when the circumstances didn’t seem to quite line up. I still believe it is best practice to trust what someone says- to believe the best about a person. In addition,…

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[mathira19]

How to overcome your unwanted habit of doubting your spouse? 8 easy solutions

There are many times you indulge in doubting your spouse, don’t you?

But the impact of your suspicion can literally turn your relationship into ashes.

What makes you suspect your spouse?

Often, your reasons are silly and a fiction of your imagination.

When your spouse is late from work, you feel he\she is seeing someone behind your back.

When he\she is friendly with the opposite sex, it is…

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[chloeushiromiya-blog]

This isn't "read more", because it's relevant, and sometimes I have this nagging feeling that this person may ocassionally read this blog (even though I only posted the URL once on FB, which would have been the only time/place they would have found it). I shouldn't have said "used to be friends with" in that last post. I wish we were still friends, and despite how complicated things got last winter, I'm hoping we can eventually repair that friendship. We used to be quite close, and for a long while, that was the most important friendship of my life. It still kinda is. I just screwed up, and he kinda screwed up at times, too. But it was mostly me screwing up, partially because I had been misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder (long story), but I don't want to blame all my actions on my mental illness. There also were other reasons for my odd actions, that were slated more in reality. Like I shouldn't try to justify them, though. And I still perceive that, that person did some shitty things at times. But I don't think that his actions were nearly as "bad" as mine. "All human wisdom is contained in these two words -- "wait" and "hope". " --Alexandre Dumas, "the Count of Monte Cristo"; final line, in ALL editions; abridged or unabridged.