Being Different Doesn't Equate to Loneliness
The age-old stigma of “different is lonely” promotes emotional trauma. Society forces weird individuals to break themselves just to fit in. There are conditions to meet for one to earn social acceptance. But, how is being different a fault in a world where harsh and unwelcome judgment aren’t one? Moreover, individual differences remain a misunderstood concept that bullies fail to fathom. This short-sightedness leads them to perceive individual differences as every bit worth of contempt. Failing to understand unique traits or forms, destruction meets the misunderstood individuals. Then, some of us wonder why the unusual ones are lonely? Why We Think Being Different Equates to Loneliness Thinking that uniqueness equates to loneliness is a culture passed down from generation to generation. We don’t really think this way. This kind of thinking weaves so much hatred into our being that it forces human kindness to shrink. Being different never equates to loneliness; however, we are the drive that forces these individuals to loneliness. You are probably guilty of this. Don’t worry. It’s not your fault for having such a way of thinking. Considering the society you are in, being influenced to this kind of thinking is inevitable. However, this does not mean all society has this way of life as this also depends on the practice that predominates one. But, it’s undeniable how this is rampant all over the world. If we look at individual differences in a new light, there really is nothing wrong with them. Instead of mocking something that is seemingly unusual, take a look at it from a different perspective. A perspective that considers the whole rather than one that reduces the worth of a person from a single thing that does not pass the vain standards of a judgmental society. In fact, it’s not hard to perceive these differences in a new light. All you have to do is remove the passed-down irrational hate or the primitive mindset. In my book, The Tale of the Perfect Whitetails, it shows how one can mingle with others perfectly without changing the unchangeable parts in them. Indeed, being different never equates to loneliness. It is up to us to see individual differences in the eyes of rational kindness. Stand up for human goodness and radiate with it. Be the new wave of influence and leave an impact that attempts to change the world for the better. Read the full article