#individualdifferences

[psycholojay]

The battle of the weak

You may fail a hundred times but it doesn't mean you're weak, you may cry a thousand river but it doesn't mean you're giving up

Showing your weaknesses doesn't really mean you are no longer capable of achieving greater things, it's just, everyone is different, I am different, you are different, we all are, I may cry at the movie titanic and you wont, I may not be scared in the movie conjuring and you might be screaming to death, I may love to consume a tub of ice cream without worrying what will I gain and you will, you might enjoy the company of your friends and in my case I don't

See, we are all different okay? If you fail, rise up, if you fail again, try again, if you failed again for the third time it means you have to work harder, improve yourself unleash your best potential, you may say to yourself, "I am at my best" but come think of it, if you are at your best why do you have to try again? See the difference? Let's stop complaining about other people's lackness or either not seeing our worth because we knew to ourselves that we are the best, instead let's build a bridge of understanding that things are not really meant for us, it may not be easy but soon enough you will realize that understanding individual differences will be your greatest weapon

We all have individual differences, and this differences are the one creating walls to someone's life, being able to understand this, we will be able to help them break down their wall and see the beauty of our world

I believe in your dream and your future is big, prove them that they are wrong, show them your best potential , quitting is never an option, life may be difficult but quitting is never a choice, you are capable of greater things, I believe in you

Being weak is never a sign of failure, you've faught for that long, what quit now? Keep in mind that it is not the situation that make us sad, it is on how we view the situation, you should now the difference, positive thinking is the key, stop magnifying all the negativity, instead, try look into the bright side, I know it is hard to be positive when you are struggling, but, it is worth a try

being able to acknowledge your weaknesses can make you even stronger, all you have to do is believe, you are stronger than your thought, and you are worthy of everything.

[psyche-bubbles]

Decision-making can be tough, especially when we factor in our personality differences or even life circumstances. Signal Detection Theory was one of the more prominent theories that looked into decision-making when we are uncertain. This video touches upon the possible circumstances that can affect decision-making and what we can do about them.

[nisagrowthhacker]

Individual Differences – What make up a person’s behavior? Each person is different from another person. What we can observe is a person’s behavior – how we behave, how we talk and do something. However, what actually make up a person’s behavior conststs of several factors which are not visible. Much like the iceberg in the picture. Our knowledge and skills, attitude and values, beliefs and personality are the factors that make up our behavior. These are the reasons why we act the way we do, and why one person is different from another. Let us go into detail on Personality factor that influences our behavior. Personality is… relatively stable across different situations; enduring across time; and expressed through patterns of behaviours that distinguish one person from another. From our own observation, we can actually see / describe the personality of people close to us, as it actually relatively consistent across context. We also normally observe that certain personality types gets along well with certain types of personality. Personality differences, for example, can lead to interpersonal antagonism, which can stymie the formation of productive teams. However, the appropriate balance of personalities can lead to the formation of effective teams. In the personality theories, there are 2 major approach: Nomothetic approach: This approach strongly supports the view that personalities are fixed and determined by heredity, and cannot be significantly influenced by environmental factors. Idiographic approach: This approach takes the opposite perspective – It recognizes that individuals do have unique innate charateristics, it also suggests that personality can be moulded and that both personality and behavior and influeced by specific environmental experiences. (Organisational Behaviour, Individuals, Groups and Organisations by Ian Brooks) There are various studies on personality, which I will share in my next post. By understanding this and how to apply this in your hiring and team development, it will greatly help you and your team to achieve better fit and becoming more productive team. #individualdifferences #behavior #personality #teamdevelopment (at Bandar Baru Bangi) https://www.instagram.com/p/CUz-2veJ65xYWeLHyXwRMT6PWHxEywCvsCw_G00/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Love Unites What Hatred Sets Us Apart

Our world has witnessed hatred-induced actions that have caused people to grow apart. Because of the hate trend, we think it’s necessary for us to strike people first with hatred before they do it to us. Hence, we become so eager to look for qualities in others that set us apart from them. We have become so scared of showing affection and love for fear of receiving hatred in return. However, others still believe in the unity that love brings. Despite experiencing the brutalities of hatred firsthand, some people think love is the only cure to it. Bullying, racism, sexism, and other subjects of hate has driven people to seek the different qualities of a person only to destroy them. Why does this happen? This is because of social constructs which have been passed down to us from our ancestors. Apparently, the culture of the past is full of ignorant knowledge, leading us to disregard or hate on things we don’t know. Even if the postmodern knowledge has grown out from some of the conventional teachings of the past, some social stigmas remain. These stigmas commonly relate to culture, sexual orientation, race, health, and even intelligence. It is as if the past culture has taught us to hate people for something they were born with or for the things they cannot change. This irrational hatred has to stop once and for all. We must learn to change our perception toward individual differences and let those social constructs fall apart. There is so much to love than what hatred can offer. Love unites us and encourages kindness to sprout forth even in the polluted soil of hatred. Some define love as something irrational and illogical, yet it is that which acknowledges a person’s uniqueness with kindness and affection. We have to stop the hate trend for when we are divided, hate breeds to extreme forms of it. Love, on the other hand, restores social wounds and connects us all, thereby encouraging lives to blossom in their own accord. So, love and grow without compromising your uniqueness to hatred’s standard.   Have you read my article about The Undying Language of Love? Read the full article

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Love Unites What Hatred Sets Us Apart

Our world has witnessed hatred-induced actions that have caused people to grow apart. Because of the hate trend, we think it’s necessary for us to strike people first with hatred before they do it to us. Hence, we become so eager to look for qualities in others that set us apart from them. We have become so scared of showing affection and love for fear of receiving hatred in return. However, others still believe in the unity that love brings. Despite experiencing the brutalities of hatred firsthand, some people think love is the only cure to it. Bullying, racism, sexism, and other subjects of hate has driven people to seek the different qualities of a person only to destroy them. Why does this happen? This is because of social constructs which have been passed down to us from our ancestors. Apparently, the culture of the past is full of ignorant knowledge, leading us to disregard or hate on things we don’t know. Even if the postmodern knowledge has grown out from some of the conventional teachings of the past, some social stigmas remain. These stigmas commonly relate to culture, sexual orientation, race, health, and even intelligence. It is as if the past culture has taught us to hate people for something they were born with or for the things they cannot change. This irrational hatred has to stop once and for all. We must learn to change our perception toward individual differences and let those social constructs fall apart. There is so much to love than what hatred can offer. Love unites us and encourages kindness to sprout forth even in the polluted soil of hatred. Some define love as something irrational and illogical, yet it is that which acknowledges a person’s uniqueness with kindness and affection. We have to stop the hate trend for when we are divided, hate breeds to extreme forms of it. Love, on the other hand, restores social wounds and connects us all, thereby encouraging lives to blossom in their own accord. So, love and grow without compromising your uniqueness to hatred’s standard.   Have you read my article about The Undying Language of Love? Read the full article

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A Life of Joy in Animal Orphanages

There is joy in animal orphanages we can witness. Others may think of the place as a haven for the unwanted and victims of calamities. However, the place does not radiate at all with sadness. If you have visited an animal orphanage, you’ll see love and hope in the eyes of the wild. Your perspective drastically widens and your understanding of a joyful life deepens. Personally, the joy in animal orphanages made a tremendous impact on my life. I’ve helped animals find shelter—to better and honestly word it, a home. In times of despair, animal orphanages give these wild animals a second shot to experience the best of life. Providers of Hope and Joy in Animal Orphanages As an advocate of animals’ welfare, I have committed myself to the duties of animal rescuers. A part of this job is to preserve hope for them. Animals are a lot like people; they, too, have feelings. These animals have experienced an unwelcome beginning in life. Hence, people deem animal orphanages as a place of sadness. However, there are special moments in animal orphanages that show rescued animals the happiness in life. The joy in animal orphanages marks the beginning of their rebirth—the birth of hope. One may think how lonely their lives are, but this is not the case at all. I have witnessed the joys in an animal orphanage. Animals forge a special bond that one may consider it as a creation of a new family. This is how my book, The Tale of the Perfect Whitetails, came to be. Despite their differences and conditions, they connect with each other and teat each other like a family. This is the joy I mentioned above that gives birth to hope. An animal orphanage isn’t only a place of refuge but is also a place where animals can rebuild their lives. One of the best feelings in the world is bearing witness of this miraculous finds in the orphanage. It’s a joy to behold and everyone deserves to know these. Read the full article

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Being Different Doesn't Equate to Loneliness

The age-old stigma of “different is lonely” promotes emotional trauma. Society forces weird individuals to break themselves just to fit in. There are conditions to meet for one to earn social acceptance. But, how is being different a fault in a world where harsh and unwelcome judgment aren’t one? Moreover, individual differences remain a misunderstood concept that bullies fail to fathom. This short-sightedness leads them to perceive individual differences as every bit worth of contempt. Failing to understand unique traits or forms, destruction meets the misunderstood individuals. Then, some of us wonder why the unusual ones are lonely? Why We Think Being Different Equates to Loneliness Thinking that uniqueness equates to loneliness is a culture passed down from generation to generation. We don’t really think this way. This kind of thinking weaves so much hatred into our being that it forces human kindness to shrink. Being different never equates to loneliness; however, we are the drive that forces these individuals to loneliness. You are probably guilty of this. Don’t worry. It’s not your fault for having such a way of thinking. Considering the society you are in, being influenced to this kind of thinking is inevitable. However, this does not mean all society has this way of life as this also depends on the practice that predominates one. But, it’s undeniable how this is rampant all over the world. If we look at individual differences in a new light, there really is nothing wrong with them. Instead of mocking something that is seemingly unusual, take a look at it from a different perspective. A perspective that considers the whole rather than one that reduces the worth of a person from a single thing that does not pass the vain standards of a judgmental society. In fact, it’s not hard to perceive these differences in a new light. All you have to do is remove the passed-down irrational hate or the primitive mindset. In my book, The Tale of the Perfect Whitetails, it shows how one can mingle with others perfectly without changing the unchangeable parts in them. Indeed, being different never equates to loneliness. It is up to us to see individual differences in the eyes of rational kindness. Stand up for human goodness and radiate with it. Be the new wave of influence and leave an impact that attempts to change the world for the better. Read the full article

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Coexisting despite Different Personalities

The age of humaneness has dawned upon us. All the offensive, primitive culture forced upon us by our ancestors are slowly fading away. Although we are making progress on this, traces of offensive cultural practices have thus far continued to exist. There will come a day when these dregs of the past will completely vanish. Thusly, humanity will attain absolute humaneness. Moreover, coexisting despite different personalities and characteristics will become possible. Struggles of Coexisting with Different Personalities It still is noticeable in various societies how people considered with different personalities struggle to socialize with others. In fact, their life seems to be stuck in the indifferent undertow of life. This leads us to the formulation of the question: Why do people struggle to coexist or get along with others? Cultural and societal conditioning plays a major role in these struggles. These two greatly affect the development of our personalities. They strip us away of our individualities all for uniformity. Uniformity, in this case, means compromising your personality just to fit in. This is the greatest struggle of coexisting with different personalities. We think we don’t deserve a bit of humane treatment if our personality doesn’t fit in the society we are in. There are depressing standards that force an individual to become who they’re not. If an individual doesn’t live up to these standards, society rejects or disowns him. The Change for the Better Fortunately, we have advanced greatly through time. We have started seeing the misunderstood concepts, which “primitive” practices stigmatize, on a different light. Advocates of this change have saved a lot of individuals in their phases of crises. Through this, we have learned to mingle with people despite our different personalities. Most importantly, we have learned to accept and love each other wholly. Our different personalities are what makes us who we are. There’s no need for us to pressure ourselves on becoming who we’re not. The primitive practices are a thing of the past. So, let the dead past bury its dead. Mingle and coexist with everyone with the humaneness of this age. The depths of kindness and compassion run so deep they affect others positively. Always remember, you are more than a culture of primitive hatred. Let your humane personality outshine ancient hatred and live your life with un-waning compassion. Read the full article