That's a question I've been asking myself for a while.
I can't answer. I am a really rational person, fun and rp aside, I do understand nothing is forever and love can generate and then fade away.But the joy when you actually find someone who appreciates you in every way, doesn't push on you, doesn't try to make you fit in gender roles, you can just sense it.It is an immense joy and my life is luckily full of it at the moment.I'm happy and lucky to have this man with me.
12) Is it right to have an intimate relationship with somebody you don’t love?
Here comes the rational bitch I was talking about.Under my point of view it totally is. Under conditions.For everyone of us, life, sex, love is different. If we could analize our lives from a totally neutral point of view, we'd probably discover our present personal tastes differ from older ones because of something that happened to us, someone we met and so on.What we also have in common is that everyone of us has got a door on our face, a "no", a deep pain. In love or life in general.Sex (talking of the specifical case for the question doesn't state it openly) can be seen as an happy-go-lucky activity but it can also be full of sorrow and sadness.There are times in which you just drown your thoughts into the attentions of your beloved one, hoping it will go away, trying to mark every loving move into your mind. You can feel the same relief when who does that is a complete stranger.What I'm trying to say here is that for how similar we can appear, we all had different experiences. Sometimes people have lived things we hadn't and that's why we can't explain their behaviour or their choices.
It is totally ok trying to retrieve that lost happiness with someone without necessarily share love with them, as long as both parts are aware of what is going on.
And for the love of god if you want to fuck a stranger just grab a condom and be sure you don't do anything irreversible I'm a Libra who am I to judge.