Jk, there's sex involved.
We will call this guy, Mr. Cowboy. I don't need to explain why. If you get it, you don't need an explanation, and if you don't get it... Good.
I was swiping on Tinder and stumbled upon the profile of a decently cute guy looking for a relationship.
Now, I have like no self-confidence, so I was surprised when we actually matched.
I was even more surprised when he seemed to be a nice guy. Usually most hot guys on Tinder only want one thing.
We talked for a week and I was kinda into him. We decided to meet up, because it's MUCH easier to get to know someone face-to-face.
Well, I drive down, like 2-3 hours one way.
We are going to hang and chill.
I get to his place and he's got two (2) friends there
Wasn't planning on a group hang, so I am just like...
Luckily, they are p chill guys.
We all hang out for a bit, then they leave.
When this happens, I have two choices
Leave, since I had lost interest in Mr. Cowboy.
Stay and talk more with Mr. Cowboy.
The next day I messaged him.
I decided to pretend to be an optimist.
Long story short, he wasn't interested.
Which I didn't find out until I became friends with one of his friends bc they were super fun to talk to and are super nice.
Mr. Cowboy told me, basically, take a hint.
The reason I'm posting this story now, however, isn't bc I'm still hung up on him.
I just matched with his roommate on Tinder.