#disciplekin

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Signless <3 Disciple? Thanks!

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~Disciple who’s angry at the highbloods and misses her Signless aesthetic~

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Aesthetic for a Dolorosa who misses her family

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Disciple missing their Signless aesthetic for anon

-Mod tavros

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motherly disciple who raised eridan and nepeta aesthetic -mod d

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Disciple in pallete #106 please? Ty!

shes listening to the signless tell a totally untrue story

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Can I have some advice and positivity for a Disciple who's missing the rest of the inner circle and has been feeling lost and purposeless?

Heya, Disciple 

Missing people is hard. It’s one of the worst things you can go through, especially when you’re kin and you’re not sure if you’ll find people again or how long it’ll take to do so. But keep Hope going. The only time you’ve lost all Hope of finding someone is the time you think you’ll never find them and give up. So long as you keep thinking about them, looking for them, even just mentioning them, you’ve still got a chance of finding them, no matter how long it takes. If you need help to bolster you up, make sure you have someone you can talk to when missing them gets really intense. It can help to tell someone old memories you love and share with the people you miss, so you can relive them a little. Sometimes it makes you feel sadder, sometimes it makes you feel better for having spent time thinking on just the good things. 

As a bit of advice on missing them, I’d recommend making a tag, or maybe a blog, full of things you’d think they’d like, things you want to show them, things that make you think of them. Reblog things to that place, whatever it is, any time you want; maybe you see a random post and think it fits, maybe you purposefully look up a tag that relates to them most. However you do it, keep reblogging things. When you miss them a lot, when you feel homesick or lonely, go to that blog and surround yourself with them as much as you can. If you’re able to, maybe even buy a few things that make you think of them, so you can feel physically connected to them even if they’re not there. Make yourself a safe place filled with them. It can help, a lot. 

As for feeling lost and purposeless, the first thing to do is remember you’re not alone with that. A lot of other kin people know how you feel; if you need to, turn to someone when you’re feeling especially lost, and they’ll be able to help. Even turn to a kin help blog if you don’t feel comfortable enough talking to someone about it off anon. We know how it feels, and if nothing else, we can understand. 

But know that you’re not purposeless. Just because you’re alone (for now), it doesn’t mean you don’t have purpose. A purpose can be a small thing, with an incredibly big impact. I think I mentioned this before, but our purposes in life may not be as grand as they once were, but they’re still just as important; you doing something incredibly small, something completely insignificant, could change someone’s perspective on things, could make their day, if not their outlook on life, a whole lot better. Maybe it means your purpose is to make people smile. Maybe it means your purpose is to be the friend who somehow always makes a friend laugh. Maybe your purpose is to say something that makes a very hateful person slowly start to question the things they’ve said. It’s still a purpose, and still an important one.And if you need to, you can always set your purpose to “finding the inner circle”. Maybe your purpose is to bring everyone back together. Maybe your purpose is to take the first step, to stumble across one of them, and from there to bring everyone else together. If you’re lost, and purposeless, then make finding them your purpose. Make a plan. Set it into action. And don’t lose Hope, even if it seems hard. You never know just when they might be around the corner to be found. 

And if nothing else. If trying to find them, if keeping Hope, if making the blog or the tag, if making yourself a purpose, isn’t for you or is too much, or is just too hard (because it’s so, so goddamn hard to keep positive sometimes, especially in relation to this) then just remember something really quite small but important:

They love you. They care for you. They likely miss you, too. 

I hope this helps, Disciple. We’re always here if you need anything else. 

- Mod DoomedDirk

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Your world will soon be mine ,don't fight it - disciple from black ops cold war

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