they way you guys treat cult survivors in this community is really dumb hnstly. you treat us as both too scary and severe and not as valid as trauma survivors, especially with programmed parts/headmates
for ex. our cousin has an alter whose programmed to make sure she can’t have a safe relationship with others outside the cult, because she was tortured and stuff until that behavior became that alters functionality!! because cult 101 is to isolate the victim, which is what the alter does to keep them under complt control, she also has other programmed headmates for other thijgs that were made to function how the cult needs us to
we do to, tho ours are diff becus we were tasked with other stuff all still for the cult id like to keep nameless
also, stop expecting trauma to go away once a person becomes an adult, that isn’t how it works either, my trauma won’t go away in three years and my voice i was never born with won’t suddenly pop back,
tl:dr - you guys need to treat cult survivors better
because they’ve had enough bad stuff happen, they dont need u being a dick