Double life goes so hard because it's like. What if amantonormativity was treated as horror. Your life quite literally depends on someone else liking you enough to stay. If you don't have the Correct partner, then clearly you are broken and damaged and wrong. You need to have someone. You need to meet someone. Once you just meet someone all of your problems will disappear. Those who can't stay with someone are clearly broken and dangerous, because why would they be alone if there wasn't something wrong with them. Relationships constantly straining and breaking under the pressure of this system and yet nobody can admit that this system is what's causing it. Even people who've been hurt by this system try to conform to it because if they do their problems will be fixed. It strains relationships that could've been good and safe till they break and nobody will stop to think of why it happened. Hello can anyone hear me.