so my dad starts angrily cleaning and he does the chores that my sister and i are supposed to do, then yells at ME for us not doing them
like he comes and angrily speaks at both of us, I mention that i wasnt reminded - they KNOW i have memory issues - and he starts yelling at ME because both things werent done
like “we’ve reminded you a lot over the years” binch these two jobs used to be 3 til my older sister moved out and i cant fucking remember that table&dishwasher was combined with scooping the litter box because thats a relatively recent development
and i get yelled at when my sister hasn’t done her shit all week and has been reminded at least twice a day. i get yelled at for mentioning i wasnt reminded and they dont even bother to say to her “you were reminded though”. i just get yelled at.
I literally have DIAGNOSED that i have issues with executive dysfunction???? and if i dare to mention it, it turns into a lecture on how i have to learn to fix it but they never put ANY effort in to help me and ive done all I fuckin can on my own it’s been seventeen years of fucking course ive tried (x) ive tried everything a person will think of naturally it DOESNT HELP I NEED PEOPLE TO REMIND ME ABOUT SHIT