If you know in your heart, you want real love and a good relationship… stop saying you don’t. So many people have been hurt after love (#everyone!?). But LOVE didn’t hurt. The END of love did. We still love love. But we don’t love when love is over - but we confuse these two. So although we may still want love so badly, we will walk around saying “we don’t”. (Buuuut, we do.) We say, we’re “fine” and that we , “don’t even want to THINK about being in a relationship right now…” (except that often when we say that, we know we really do). It’s ok to not be ready for a relationship and to admit that we aren’t. But don’t say you don’t want to be in one if ultimately, you really do. Why? Because YOU are literally the co-creator of your relationship, and THIS is how you are showing up. 🚨 Saying you don't want it. 🚨 Because these 2 things are so misaligned, the universe has no idea what to give you… so it doesn’t. What can we focus on instead? "To be in a healthy relationship and CREATE a strong “WE" requires us to first and continually be a strong and whole “ME”. My favourite combination of work is the break up recovery (helping you understand and move through the pain) plus the inner work essentials (you know your worth, so you trust yourself to not cross your own boundaries) - these two combined, boom 💥 #doidothat #healthylove #datingagain #ifyouwantlove #manifestlove #youcreatetheloveyoudeserve #lovetolove #findinglove #creatinglove #whatyousay #brokenhearts #iwantlove #newlove #lovecliches #helpmefindlove #findyourlove #breakuprecovery #breakuprepair #breakupsos #breakup101 #healingfromheartbreak #attractlove #socliche #tellittotheuniverse #putitouttotheuniverse #beachfordays #lacanauocean #inalignment (at Lacanau-Océan, Aquitaine, France) https://www.instagram.com/p/CidpxTWPual/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=