Dear Diary: 11•07•2026
The Jackson 5 made love sound so easy. As easy as 1-2-3 of course.
Now, I don't know how true that is for love—but what I do know is that manifestation doesn't have to be complicated at all, especially if you can remember these three steps: A.B.C
A is for ASK. (want it)
Manifesting successfully begins with the raw vulnerability of desire. Boldly admitting what you want, and more importantly, giving yourself permission to want it. Many of us carry unconscious shame around wanting more, taking up space, or asking for help. We should all overcome this block because the truth is: you are never a burden to the universe, this world, or the right person. No matter how big and monumental your dreams and goals feel to you.
Once the desire is stated, ask why you want it. If your answer is just "so people can see me with it", you might never feel satisfied once you get it. The strongest desires are rooted in purpose, joy, service, curiosity, or love.
Write a letter to yourself + the universe and ask. Start with: "I want......"
B is for BELIEVE. (see It)
Belief begins in the imagination. When you think about what you want, don't just look at it from a distance but step inside of it. Own it. It's yours isn't it? Don't be shy ;)
Let's say you want a car right— what color is the paint or wrap? Is it a sleek convertible or a commanding SUV? What brand and model is it? Reach your hands out in your minds eye and feel the steering wheel: how heavy and smooth is it to turn? Are the seats leather? How do they feel against your back? Which city are you driving this car in? What kind of music do you play in it? Take note of the emotion you feel. Excitement, joy, content, peace are very magnetic emotions.
Let your mind rehearse this vision until it starts to feel familiar, real. Remember that this is not just a dream. It's your future.
Here's the thing: our brains don't always differentiate a vividly imagined experience to a real memory.
Use this to your advantage. The more consistently you visualize your desired reality, the more naturally your thoughts, decisions, and actions begin to align with it. Suddenly when you pass car diffusers in the store, you'll wonder which ones will suit your car more. Bergamot or Classic Pine?
C is for CREATE (be it)
You've imagined your dream car. Now, create a life that has somewhere to park it. Dreaming without action is just wishful thinking. Manifestation is an active collaboration with the universe. You cannot just wait around for the shift; step into the energy of the version of you who already has it. We have to physically push the first domino to initiate the sequence. Audit your daily habits and find what might need to change. Identify with what you are manifesting. What does this version of you do? What does she look like? What is her weekly routine like? What's her lifestyle and how does she maintain it? What can you do today to prepare for this car? Can you change a tire, do you know what to do if your engine heats up on the road? Do you even have a license yet, be honest doll I won't judge.
Go test drive the car you want, Google what's the best insurance package for you, financially prepare for this new car, make a driving playlist, go back and get that car diffuser. I vote the bergamot one🙋♀️. Keep it in your drawer with the intention of using it in that sweet ride.
When you move in perfect alignment to your asks and confidence in your beliefs, the universe responds by organizing inspiration, luck, timing, and brilliant coincidences in your life to assist you. Trust the opportunities when they show up; your action is what locks the reality into place.
Now you know your ABC's: Ask. Believe. Create
with love, always xoxo!