#dollyspeaks

[feeble-femme]

Reminder to all stone tops and touch-me-nots: You are not broken, and you do not need to be fixed. You will find someone who loves, cherishes, and respects you and your boundaries. No matter if your boundaries are shaped by trauma, personal preference, or both, know that you do not need to be 'fixed' to find love or be loved.

[themeeperscreepers]

Can my mutuals bully me into finishing chapter one of my Lock Shock and Barrel fanfic

@wife4ever @runrabit-3timesdacringe @ren05c @rainythegoof @rocket-220 @imkindasleepdeprived @toxicwound @aceexists @fincessbubblecup @lordelvensmelly @lostsprit @she-who-is-two-sizes-too-big @swiss-in-my-cheese @swirlscripted @sirstrawberryhead @solareclipse444 @sadcabbages @shuncosplaysstuff @scrimblyblimbily @bishopoftheoldfaith

[dollydollspookprincess]

(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7RH7L9hPqI)

Ugh had to use youtube.

But here’s my room :D ( not shown  is the clutter of the back of the rooom lol)

[feeble-femme]

Disabled butches are allowed to want to be protectors. Putting all disabled people into one category is counterproductive. Not all disabled people want to be viewed as weak. Equating being a protector to physical strength or ability is harmful. Being a protector is more than just the physical aspect. It can be shown through how you care for and comfort others, how you show love to your community, through your advocacy, and how you provide guidance. Being caring and vulnerable are traits of a true protector, too. Being a protector means understanding that physical violence isn't always the answer. This is why a lot of people fall flat and fail to protect others.

[feeble-femme]

Being a fat femme means that my body is inherently political. Every inch, crevice, fold, roll, curve, and stretch mark is political. Everything about this body is a political statement about love, growth, and defiance in a world that tells me I shouldn't exist. They will insist that beauty requires conformity and, as a result of that, self-hatred. That's why I strive to love my body more and more every day. Remember that the very act of self-love is one of the most radical forms of resistance.

[feeble-femme]

“transphobes dni” but you think trans men are lesbians, like terfs do. bioessentialism in supposedly progressive packaging is still bioessentialism.

I don't think all transmen are lesbians. In fact, I know most are not. But to deny the fact that some are and still identify with lesbianism and/or butchness is to deny history and lacks nuance. These identities are here to explain complex lived experiences. Transmen are not a monolith, especially when we add intersectionallity (ie. race) to these discussions. Nothing will ever be as cut and dry as the internet wants it to be. I believe any trans person can lable themselves as a lesbian. I am not here to police how trans people identify and encourage all trans people to use labels that they feel best fit their identity. This account is a safe space for all trans people regardless of how they identify, especially for trans people whose identity is debated and invalidated. I love you all <3

[feeble-femme]

Femme lesbian is my gender. My gender exists outside of cisheteronormative femininity. I am not a woman, not a girl. I am femme. I express my femininity in a way that is different through the lens of transness and lesbianism. It is a femininity that will never be tied to the demands of patriarchy but to my deep connection with butches and dykes. My gender is rooted in a disconnection from traditional cis femininity. It is a femininity that is trans and is inherently queer. I feel dysphoria when my femininity is seen through a cisnormative lens when it doesn't appear queer. It is something so uniquely mine. It’s authentic--not shaped by society’s expectations but by the ways I embrace it.

My connection to butches is vital to my identity. I uplift their masculinity in a society that tries to beat it out of them. I use my femininity as love and protection from the harsh realities of being gender nonconforning and trans. In return, they protect me and allow my femininity to thrive outside the strict binary that is imposed on us. When I'm in my butch's arms, I know he sees me just as I am and just as I am meant to be. This isn’t heteronormative. It's quite the opposite. It actively opposes everything the patriarchy expects, letting us redefine what masculinity and femininity mean to us.

Overall, this is about how I feel, not how others define femininity. It's a reclamation. I exist beyond the binary.

[feeble-femme]

Why is everyone so scared to say lesbian? 😭 It feels like people are always quick to say wlw but never lesbian. Like what's going on? I'm not talking about sapphic people who say wlw either. I'm talking about lesbians. As a trans nonbinary femme, sometimes I feel excluded when people only say wlw to refer to lesbians.