You should go and love yourself!
Today is not going to be the day you ask yourself if there is anyone out there for you.
Today is not the day you will look so closely at your hairline in the mirror, yet forget to really look at yourself. You can cover the grays without masking your true value.
Today is not the day that you will be thinking about the last person who rejected you, whether it was yesterday, two months ago, or five years ago. Your day is simply not for dwelling.
If you are in love with someone who has deeply disappointed you, and has moved on, then we all feel for you...but today is not reserved for them.
Sure, it hurts and we don’t understand. S/he is a really good person and we don’t know what went wrong, either. However, nurturing a broken heart will only attract more negativity in your life, leaving less room for new things you can embrace, and enjoy. If that person who has imprinted in your thoughts realizes what s/he has lost later on down the line, be in a position where you’re shining in the light and not coming out of the darkness.
I don’t know what is meant for each individual one of us, but we probably won’t find anything too valuable in the shadows of distorted memories.
Do not spend any time counting how many kids your ex has.
Do not look at any of your former flames’ social media accounts (yes, we have all done it. Stop lying to yourself and stop doing it).
Do not dance with absolutes. Nothing is indefinite. Relationships and people are constantly evolving.
Stop looking at the same person while looking for the same person.
Feel free to revisit this tomorrow, but if possible, try to keep your tomorrow free too. The less we focus on the things that make us uncomfortable, or let us down, the more likely we will be to fall in love with the person who counts the most- ourselves!
