I was asked to do a chart reading for this guy who’s ex keeps stringing him along. She doesn’t want him but keeps talking and posting about him and doesn’t want him to be with other girls.
The girls (orange) Venus is conjunct his (blue) south node.
While her (orange) north node is conjunct HIS (blue) venus
I think her having her venus conjunct his south node and then her north node conjunct his venus, shows that she is supposed to let go of her ideals of love and respect and commit to his ideals of love.
But the houses of the double aspected also confirm the back and forth dynamic. His south node is in her 7th house, going away from her Venus and his north node is in her 1st house. His north node is not aspected by any of her planets. So I honestly do believe that he is meant to grow away from her unless she respects his relationship ideals. Per her north node placement conjunct his Venus
She has a chance to save this back and forth dynamic because her north node is conjunct his Venus in the 5th house. Her south node is in his 11th house so they are definitely supposed to start off as friends and then be in a committed relationship.
Just such an interesting chart because the energies are both going away and towards eachother. She is definitely more impacted by this relationship than he is. She moved across the country, doesn’t wanna date him but wants to date other guys but still treat him like a bf in an emotional way. But this is the chart. Hope I explained this right. Let me know you guys thoughts!
