#downwithabusiveshipping

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I was tagged by @nicetomeetyouimqueer to spell out my url using songs. This was fun

Dementia by Owl City

Only You Can Be You by Cymphonique Miller

Wanted by Daya, NOTD

Nobody Compares to You by Gryffin, Katie Pearlman

Wish I Never Met You by Loote

I Won’t Let You Walk Away by Mako, Madison Beer

This Is Me by Demi Lovato

How Far I’ll Go by Auli’i Cravalho 

Anti-Gravity by RUNAGROUND

Breathe by Lauv

Umbrella by Rihanna

Shut Up and Kiss Me by Marianas Trench

I Want It That Way by Backstreet Boys

Vanilla Twilight by Owl City

Electric Touch by A R I Z O N A 

Song 2 You by Victoria Justice, Leon Thomas III

Hurt So Good by Carly Rae Jepsen 

I Like Me Better by Lauv

PYNK by Janelle Monae

Parachute by Laura Marano

If I Can’t Have You by Shawn Mendes

Nothing Left to Lose by Eden Espinosa, Jeremy Jordan

Good Time by Owl City, Carly Rae Jepsen

@medicfuckedjudas @children-against-pedophiles @just-another-obsessed-fangirl @mukhannath @hazelhime

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is that briar beauty in your icon (huge eah fan here)

YES it is and i’m glad you noticed, I love Ever After High too!!!

(It’s from Maddie’s Hat-tastic Party and it’s one of my favorite looks!!!)

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Sadly, there are proship authors (as in, this person is actually published). My mom reads a lot of this person's work and doesn't understand when I try to tell her how dangerous it is. I wish there was something I could do...

Sorry I left this in my inbox for so long, I just didn’t know how to answer.

Yeah that does happen and it really sucks.

I’m sorry, I’m not sure what to do, maybe you could show her (good) articles criticizing twilight and 50 shades of grey, the ones that talk about the signs of an abusive relationship in the books and show how harmful holding that up as an ideal is? And then draw a parallel between that and whatever author your mom reads.

If you want to go that route, let me know in another ask and I can answer with compiling a list of articles for you.

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I know your "before you reblog" says you're against transphobes, but I looked in one of your posts and there are, like... an ungodly amount of TERFS/transphobes who were interacting with your posts. I'm not sure what you want to do about that, but I thought I should give you a heads up so that you're at least aware.

Oh dear lord. Yeah thank you for the heads up. I do my best to check who I'm reblogging from, but I'm not good at tracking everyone who interacts with my posts. 

I despise transphobia and TERF ideology. I myself am nonbinary, but that's besides the point. Trans woman are women, trans people are human beings who should be respected instead of demonized, and I refuse to allow that kind of bigotry to flourish.

If anyone disagrees, I recommend they get off my blog. 

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Am i weird for not liking nsfw content? I mean so many artistis are creating erotic stuff with many different ships and i just don't feel comfortable with that. I feel like a prude but im not asexual or religious i just think that the world is overly sexualisied and im so so soooo tired of it. Any advice?

No, it doesn’t make you weird. I agree that our world can be overly sexualized sometimes. You don’t need to have a “justification” (like being asexual or religious) to be uncomfortable with it. 

As long as you’re not morally judging them for creating the content (unless of course their erotic art is glorifying abusive relationships, pedophilia, incest, etc.), there’s nothing wrong with not liking their content. 

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fbi take down archiveofourown challenge

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Controversial Opinion: Bullying is NOT normal, and is NOT just a “normal part of growing up.”

https://www.justsayyes.org/bullying/is-bullying-normal-behavior/

https://thesouthern.com/lifestyles/health-med-fit/bullying-is-not-a-normal-part-of-growing-up/article_67e4a15a-af09-11df-9735-001cc4c03286.html

https://www.health24.com/Parenting/Child/News/Bullying-is-not-normal-childhood-behaviour-20120721

The only reason it is viewed as such, the only reason it is such a prevalent experience for children, is because we live in an abuse culture, we live in a kyriarchy. 

(This is also why bullying often, though not always, falls in line with other social issues, i.e. bullies targeting racial minority students/queer students/disabled students/etc.)

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i was thinking why the violence and exploitation towards children feels different and more personal than other types of oppression to me, and then i realized: 

unlike with many other oppressed groups, everyone either is, or has been a child. which makes the fact so many adults don’t seem to understand children at all even more bizarre. 

like at least with race or gender you could say that someone will genuinely not know what it’s like to have a certain experience. but with ageism, every adult has been a child. so what’s their explanation excuse???

(Before anyone asks NO I am not saying that racism and/or sexism is more acceptable at all.)