#dragonsofheart

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me: im aroace

person: *knows*

me: *starts talking to person*

person: *starts being more friendly*

me, in my head: Oh crap oh no is this what i think it is

person: wouldnt it be crazy if we were soulma-

me: NOOOOOOO STOPPPP PLEAAASEEE

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I think the most bellusromantic thing ive ever done is when i was younger, like really young, i was obviously very heavily influenced by amatonormativity

I thought kissing was just a thing People Did, like i knew it had romantic context to some, but to me it was just a "hey ur cool!"

So one day i was hanging out with my friend who i didnt actually know all that well, and he was decently cute to my child brain, and i admired him because my sister was friends with his sister

so i went over and asked him "do you wanna kiss?" and he said "sure" and then we kissed

i was like in first grade at the time and im pretty sure that kid had a massive crush on me but i was just being friendly?? Man i was dense

[dragonsofheart]

this isnt aspec related, but question: can you have gender envy and not be genderqueer?

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Awhile back I got the "so who do you like" question for the first time

We were in play practice and the person (A) asked me it

I said "Huh? What do you mean??"

A replied "Like who do you have a crush on"

Im closeted, as Ive said in the past, so i couldnt exactly say "oh im aro lol" and being a teenage girl its kinda expected I have crushes

So i just kinda said "Oh no one" and then A went "mmm." and continued watching the rehearsal

It was strange

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I find it sad how every time im talking to a boy (i am female) my brain goes, "wait, is this romantic? Is it supposed to be? whats this weird feeling??"

And I know that it's not romantic attraction, its gotta be either platonic or alterous, as it usually happens with those I admire. But I just get scared, what if im faking everything?

I really need to go to bed, im having an orientation crisis.

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sometimes im terrified to accidentally post a post meant for here on my main blog bc my irl friends look at that blog sometimes and if they saw it i would crumble

[dragonsofheart]

hey guys what are your favorite aspec characters

can be implied, confirmed, or just hc :)

[dragonsofheart]

Hello there, the dragons are here to explain themselves!

We are the dragons of heart, a blog about dragons, fantasy, and being aroace. (Despite our name being plural, and using "we/our" pronouns here, it's just one person.) We mainly talk about whatever we wanna talk about here, as long as its fantasy or (more often) aroace themed! Please take note that we dragons are not trying to say anything completely factual, we're just trying to be goofy on the internet and speak our minds sometimes.

Microlabels, if you're curious!

Aegofictosexual Bellusromantic Demialterous Rat Ace Aroflirt Vocaromantic Aegoromantic Anovelaen (obviously) Nebularomantic Arolovic

Please have a good day, the dragons all wish you well!