#drama .

[crowreign-blog]

when u don't even ship jonerys because you didn't think they had chemistry in the first place but now u gotta 😔

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christ

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ohh my god?

[apricotluvr]

[merisms]

i do have a few words left to say about the catsglade situation and it's that it's interesting that he claims BOTH that solar fabricated/exaggerated the screenshots AND that he's sorry for what he's done. how can it be both? if they were fabricated then what apology is needed? and for some reason he claims this despite the fact that other people provided screenshots and MULTIPLE people expressed similar experiences. it was never just solar

secondly that catsglade spent 2 sentences apologizing for what he did and the rest blaming it on solar being "abusive". even if solar were abusive to cas, abuse is only ever an explanation, not an excuse. you are an ADULT, you know that doxxing, harassing, stalking, and making whole blogs about people over you believing them to be "fake" isn't ok regardless of what someone else tells you (i will note this applies to solar as well). however it's interesting that every count of abuse cas claims to have experienced from solar are things cas did to other people before he even met solar in feb 2018. and it's interesting that cas was involved in the harassment of people much longer than he ever knew solar. it's interesting that even the people who are siding with cas on this matter admit that he's hurt them and that they are choosing to believe he'll "get better"

and lastly that if he were truly trying to be better, trying to be "good"...why'd it take a whole callout and a community losing trust in him for him to issue a several paragraph long explanation about how oh it's actually someone else's fault but also he's sorry? why did solar have to be the one that admitted to people that he was part of their harassment, and not cas? why was his response to post a guilt trip story about how he's going to the psych ward?

[merisms]

I cant really put in details or anything but catsglade actually harassed two systems who are friends of mine, one they made a fake callout blog about and another they stalked and threatened to write a callout about. They also kicked them from an info server because one of them didnt understand some things due to autism, solar was involved but now I dont really have anything against them.

not really surprised but i'm sorry to hear that, i hope your friends are doing ok

wrt solar--he's definitely responsible for his actions regardless of manipulation, like we can be aware that he was being taken advantage of while acknowledging that he also hurt people with those actions

[merisms]

On the subject of Solar-n-co NOT being poor - I want to know where the Pottergate money really went. Suddenly, Solar gets a pet bird, a tattoo, hundreds of dollars in premier art supplies, hair dye, etc since he lost his job. Does anyone know if Solar actually went to Pottergate and got a diagnosis?

idk about solar, those screenshots are catsglade lying sbout being poor

for point of reference, i know a lot less about solar than i do about cas because i muted that server we were in together. i only know how solar and cas met and the few months after, where solar had joined just wanting to ask questions about did/osdd and hadn't had a diagnosis yet and cas immediately latched onto him and started involving him in syscourse/youtube/etc. i'm personally a lot less focused on solar in this situation because, while he's definitely responsible for his actions, catsglade was the one behind the curtains from the beginning and has been hurting people for a long time before solar