sorry for dramaposting again but the amount of times I’ve recently seen transfems get called out for saying shit like “it’s never ok to be a man”/“being a man is illegal” or whatever which is obviously like. hyperbolic and unserious. and something cis women do all the time without anyone batting an eye. is crazy
especially since it’s almost always in reaction to some random trans dude sending an ask like “im a boy is that okay 🥺” and then when she says no everyone’s like TRANSPHOBE!!!! like im sorry but trans women have zero obligation to validate your identity for you ?!
and like. trans or not if you’re a man and you see a woman-centered space online and get so uncomfortable that you need to be like “but I can be here right? im good right? im a good boy?” you are being misogynistic. your gender insecurity is your own problem that you need to deal with by yourself
