Francesca, do you mind me asking if there is personal lore behind the forget-me-nots? I don't have a favorite flower myself, but every time I see them I think of you now and appreciate them vicariously
the way you almost, technically, sorta answered your own question, rena 🥺💞
there is no personal lore of sorts, no, but i've been lucky enough to live in places that always had some around, maybe not full fields of them but still enough to notice them on the side of the street, in parks, etc. etc.
and baby francesca learned their name, thought "neat! that's so nice! you can just see them wherever and just, remember! people and places and moments! all the time!"
adding to it that it's such an uncomplicated little flower, it really does seem to grow wherever, almost weed-like in the way it perseveres. it delights me to think that i can look at the ground and stumble on a little reminder 💙
just seeing them makes me smile! and that's really all it comes down to. seeing them and thinking "yes, you're right, i remember" and it might be some time in my teens when i was hanging out with friends on the swings, it might be going to annoy my sister at school when we had recess outside, it might be 20yo me walking to work on my own. they're like little bookmarks!
in conclusion, maybe it was the name that drew me to them first (a flower commanding me to not forget!), but then i noticed just how common they are, how often you have these tiny blue dots winking at you from the ground, and realized.... you know what i mean? i had a bit of an italicized oh moment <3
so for you to come to me and ask this and explain it by telling me you've started thinking of me whenever you see them because you know they're my favorites! that's you forgetting-them-and-me-not and it made me smile like a fool at my laptop
truly the sweetest message i've ever gotten!
















