#earning trust

[blueyesblackminds]

Earning trust is like scaling a mountain: The more severe a person's pistanthrophobia is, the more difficult the ascent. But the reward you get from putting in the effort is worth it in the end.

[cal807]

Levi Snippet # 10 : Furlan

When furlan first met sofie he blushed at the sight of her natural beauty when he saw her side profile trying to buy food . When he approached the girl in an attempt to flirt and put his hand on her shoulder . That was a big mistake , the young woman spun a full 360 degrees and sent him flying once she kicked under his chin. For a brief moment he saw her ice cold glare ‘ ow that smarts ‘ . Sofie heard her levi jog towards her direction . Her expression turned from a glare into a smile , a beautiful smile . “ sofie what the fuck happened i heard something and i thought .. “ The young male couldn’t continue his words when he saw those light violet eyes looking at him with surprise “y-you were worried about me ?” He didn’t give her the satisfaction of replying to her. Thinking she had meant to tease him, no it just surprised her. The young raven haired male used one of his hands to rub the back of his neck while averting his eyes and blushing .Usually the two rarely showed pda where anyone can see them . But this time the snowy white haired woman made an exception and hugged her lover wrapping her arms around his back . Both sighed in happiness and showed each other a gentle smile . Understanding each other to take their leave . After first meeting sofie and levi furlan would try repeatedly asking them to let him join them . The first few times sofie looked at furlan with an icy glare which clearly told him ‘ I don’t like you’. But that didn’t stop the blonde. What could’ve been a few months . the couple finally accepted it on two conditions . “ for starters learn how to cook and clean also you’d be joining us on our jobs “ sofie said and Levi continued “It won’t be for free either so get your ass moving and come “. Once Levi grew comfortable with furlan and began to trust him ..sofie not so much . “ I don’t get it , why does she hate me ? “, before answering levi took another sip of his tea. “ She hates men , she’s used to me because i’ve known her for a while, overtime she grew distrustful of everyone else because of where we live.. I once saw her kill a scumbag because he tried to cop a feel out of her”. Shuddering at the thought levi continued “ From what she told me you tried to make a move on her , she hates being touched by strangers “. “Ok , that much i get but she doesn’t have a problem touching you.. i saw that hug when i first met her “, growing tired of this conversation levi gave a curt answer “ because she’s my woman dumbass , you’re lucky i didn’t tear you apart that day “ .. now that it all clicked furlan was sweating out of anxiety . ‘ I better not mention that i was going to hit on her because i thought she was hot’ . It took an extremely long time for furlan to gain sofie’s trust and see any type of change on how she treated him . But one day he saw a whole new side of her , a job gone wrong due to some shady people . Furlan ended up getting a sprained ankle and deep bruising on his cheek . “ Oi , can you stand ? “ once he tried to put pressure on his left ankle he fell on his ass . “ Tch .. guess it can’t be helped “, the petite woman picked the tall male with ease . “ w-what are you-?” , “ Isn’t it obvious ? I’m taking you home so we can treat your wounds you’re lucky it isn’t severe”. ‘ her words are harsh but that’s beside the point ! how the hell is she this strong ?! and why is levi letting her carry me?!’. Levi was there but he was intrigued to see what would happen .. he already knew sofie is strong enough to lift a man like furlan despite her height . Once they were inside their home sofie carried furlan to his room and gently put him at the edge of his bed where he sat . Just as sofie left the room to get a first-aid kit to treat the man’s wounds she looked up at levi who was leaning against the door silently telling him ‘ I’ll be back make sure he doesn’t do anything stupid ‘ . Understanding what she wants levi nodded in agreement . “ Levi what the hell was that ? “ “ she told me to look after you “

“ ok? How is that even possible ? you two didn’t even exchange words” not even bothering to answer the blondes question irked furlan ‘ what the hell?! these two are weird’ . giving up , sofie came back with a medicine bottle and two bags of ice covered in rags and a glass of water. Giving the male 2 tablets and the water she handed it to him. “ swallow and drink it , the medicine will help with the pain “ once he did what what he was told sofie instructed him to lay down she put both ice packs on his ankle and his cheek . “ the ice is to help reduce the swelling and pain , “ thank you sofie , i didn’t realize you cared for other people “ offering her a small smile . Making her eyes slightly widen by surprise and averted her eyes with an evident blush .. not used to getting compliments by others . ‘ apart from my mother and levi i never received any compliments ‘. “ Tch .. Don’t be stupid i’m always caring about others “ . Before she left sofie rubbed the top of his head and showed him a gentle smile .. going towards levi to hold his hand both had left the room . ‘S-She smiled and was nice to me ? i understand nothing ‘ taken aback by this new side of sofie he rested his head holding the ice pack on his cheek.

[laerling]

Powder the foster cat cuddling up to me and sleeping for the first time ever.

The poor thing was covered in flea bites and other scars when I got him, and had been labeled 'feral' by another rescue agency because he was scared and hissing at them.

Feral? Come on...he just needed some time.

[thebutterflyandbee]

When people say respect your elders I only agree to an extent because they do have more life experience than me and most likely know what they are talking about. However, if I don't get the same amount of respect back or you haven't earned you aren't getting it. Respect is earned like trust, I'm not giving it out for free.

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Building Bridges of Trust

Building Bridges of Trust

Building bridges of trust is possible Yet, our relational histories, to a large extent, can hinder us in trusting others. Whether we recall intentional or unintentional wounds from others they impact us in how we perceive others’ intentions.

Some find it extremely difficult if not impossible to trust others. They just haven’t seen enough integrity that would merit trust. An individual’s capacity…

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The Free Fall Of Trust

The Free Fall Of Trust

When Gallup first asked Americans about their trust of newspapers in 1973, 39 percent said they had a great deal of trust in them and by 1979, that number reached a high of 51 percent. In 2016, only 20 percent of Americans said they trust newspapers. Trust in television news has charted much the same course, and it fares only slightly better in 2016, with 21 percent trust.

In a poll we did a…

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When Your Spouse Can't See A Way Forward - Limiting Beliefs

When Your Spouse Can’t See A Way Forward – Limiting Beliefs

We all have limiting beliefs.  You… me… and your spouse!  I always work to change my limiting beliefs.  You are probably doing the same.  But you can’t just change your spouse’s limiting beliefs!

What is a limiting belief?  It is a mostly-FALSE belief.  But more than that, it is one that keeps you stuck… unable to see bigger possibilities.  Potentials for change.

Mostly, limiting beliefs are…

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