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[loveforficts]

Hi I have a question, I have a crush on a fictional character but the actor who brought him to life died in real life, and I was wondering if that was a little weird or wrong of me to love the character, what should I do??

No, I don't think that's weird at all. I always encourage us to maintain healthy separation between character, and actor. Fiction, and reality. The actor brought your crush to life but ultimately, they were not the same person. Characters are eternal; Unfortunately, we are not. I know several people personally who have f/os who's actors have passed away, and I've never gave it a second thought. If anything it's beautiful that their work continues to touch people long after they're gone <3

[shinyeeveelynn]

How about 7, 8, and 9 for Obi-Wan?

~ librarian-lover 📖

Thank you so muchhh!

7. What color do you associate with them?

The light sand-y color he's always wearing (in RotS specifically) or the same blue as his saber!

8. Is there a specific physical feeling you associate with the thought of them (flutters in your stomach, calloused hands, etc)?

Oh absolutely, the feeling of his beard in my hands. He loves having his beard scritched, so I do it often. I swear he's a cat in a j.edi disguise.

9. What's a phrase that makes you think of your f/o?

Okay this may seem kinda dark cause I ship with Ani too but @wisemins went through a whole phase where they'd randomly say YOU WERE THE CHOSEN ONE on call and now it's the first phrase that comes to mind, LMAO. I wish it were something cuter or more poetic but nope just my best friend memeing my f/os as per usual.

Though the iconic "May the f.orce be with you" also immediately makes me think of him before any other S.tar W.ars character!

Click here to send me a number and an F/O!

[loveforficts]

Quick question...I was thinking, how do you know when it's the right time to marry your F/O I mean don't you have to be with them for a certain amount of time, or does that time equal to how many years you watched the show or movie they were in or does really doesn't matter, I'm confused because I've been in love with my F/0 since 1999, can you help me out.

Okay, so as far as measuring how much time you've been together I it's personal preference. A lot of people I see measure the amount of IRL time they've been in love with them as the time they've been together, others have that and then an internal canon time they've been together. It really doesn't matter, it's completely up to you. Example, I've been with Frank for 4 years but in canon I've known him for almost a decade and I've been with him maybe 2 years give or take.

As far as when you should get married.. that's entirely up to you to! If it feels right, and you've been thinking about doing it, do it! I never saw myself marrying Frank, just because of the type of person he is and the type of lives we live in my canon but recently I just could not stop thinking about it and I really wanted nothing more than to call him my husband instead of my boyfriend so I said screw it, I'm marrying this man!

Have fun with it, build your world the way you want to.

[loveforficts]

I am soooo in love with my F/O and stuff and likee its sooo awesome to be this in love, never felt this way before LIKE EVER. Problem is the F/O is popular and I has to share them like, a lot. And some even F/O them too. So like, how do you get comfy sharin your F/Os? Isn't it kinda jealousy indusing?

Okay so I just had a jealousy ask that I referred to this ask right here on how I see our relationships that may help curb jealous feelings, I also suggest you take a look!

I will say, I'm not sure that you can force yourself to be okay with sharing, at least not over night. So for me, I've always been okay with sharing. In fact, I liked talking to people who also loved my partners because we could talk and relate and gush together and that was fun to me. However, recently I had a stint with Frank where I suddenly got weirdly possessive and I didn't want to see or hear other people shipping with him. Which, could have been a bigger issue if it had hit harder because he's really popular to have a thing for in his fandom. Anyway, I sort of got over it and I think it may have been talking to a close friend who also ships with him? I really wish I could explain what about talking to someone I was close to made it easier for me and ultimately got me back to a head space where I was okay sharing, but I guess my advice would be to maybe start off with only engaging that type of conversation with people you feel safe with? Or if you don't already know someone personally who shares f/os with you, start off with small exposures. I HOPE THAT'S HELPFUL? I feel like it isn't, but- HOPEFULLY.

[loveforficts]

It bothers me when people say rude things about my self-ship. It's an age gap, but both my f/o and I are adults. I know I shouldn't care what others think, and I love my f/o very much, but it still hurts whenever I get messages like "you're disgusting", or other messages that I shouldn't write out here.

Hey, Sock. I'm so sorry you're getting nasty messages about your relationship. Anyone here who knows you, knows you're an incredibly kind person and in no way shape or form deserves to be torn down like that.

This is what I mean when I say people need to learn to tailor their online experience to their liking. Maybe it does bother someone to see an age gap despite both parties being well into adulthood (aka not 18 or 19, we're talking late 20s), that's fine I'm sure they have their reasons, but in that case PLEASE just block or black list whatever it is that's bothering you. Sending hate to someone like Sock is not the flex or "activism" you think it is. To everyone; Absolutely keep yourselves safe, keep away from people who do things that make you uncomfortable, and just have a good time.

For what it's worth, I really enjoy Alice and Dr.Finkelstein's dynamic and like seeing you two around. <3

[loveforficts]

Hey there, so I have a question.

My F/O is the One. I love him so much and he loves me too. I'm gonna marry him.

But something that kind off rubs me the wrong way, is the fact that he's rather popular and that some people consider him as their F/O too.

How do I handle feelings of jealousy?

Hello anon, congrats! I answered something about dealing with jealousy right here, it's a bit of an older ask but I think it still holds up. Hope that helps!

[stxrryeevee]

meeeep! :3 hii!

@hydra-failure

HAIIUIIIIIII

[shinyeeveelynn]

6 for anakin and obi-wan 💕

GOSH SORRY THIS TOOK ME SO LONG. Got busy, but thank you!

6. What's a scent that you associate with your f/o (that isn't their perfume/cologne)?

I associate the smell of leather with Ani, and the smell of sands (hah) and fresh air with O.bi-W.an. <3