#fictromantic

[loveforficts]

I am soooo in love with my F/O and stuff and likee its sooo awesome to be this in love, never felt this way before LIKE EVER. Problem is the F/O is popular and I has to share them like, a lot. And some even F/O them too. So like, how do you get comfy sharin your F/Os? Isn't it kinda jealousy indusing?

Okay so I just had a jealousy ask that I referred to this ask right here on how I see our relationships that may help curb jealous feelings, I also suggest you take a look!

I will say, I'm not sure that you can force yourself to be okay with sharing, at least not over night. So for me, I've always been okay with sharing. In fact, I liked talking to people who also loved my partners because we could talk and relate and gush together and that was fun to me. However, recently I had a stint with Frank where I suddenly got weirdly possessive and I didn't want to see or hear other people shipping with him. Which, could have been a bigger issue if it had hit harder because he's really popular to have a thing for in his fandom. Anyway, I sort of got over it and I think it may have been talking to a close friend who also ships with him? I really wish I could explain what about talking to someone I was close to made it easier for me and ultimately got me back to a head space where I was okay sharing, but I guess my advice would be to maybe start off with only engaging that type of conversation with people you feel safe with? Or if you don't already know someone personally who shares f/os with you, start off with small exposures. I HOPE THAT'S HELPFUL? I feel like it isn't, but- HOPEFULLY.

[self-ship-love]

Ideas on how to connect with your f/o 💋

Make a playlist for your f/o - use spotify or youtube.

Re-watch their scenes.

Write a fanfic about them and post it online.

Write poetry for them and post it online.

Draw the two of you together if you’re an artist.

Write a song about them, imagine yourself singing it to them.

Look at pictures of them, perhaps save them as your lockscreen/wallpaper.

Purchase their merchandise.

Create all kinds of headcanons for them. They don’t even have to fit their canon story- because canon doesn’t have to matter or exist!

Read other people’s headcanons about your f/o. 

While lying in bed, imagine them curled up next to you, perhaps spooning you and whispering sweet nothings into your ear. Picture them talking about their day as you fall asleep. Bunch up some blankets or place a pillow behind you to make it feel realistic. Imagine them kissing your neck and sighing as they inhale your scent.

Imagine taking a shower with them. Picture them standing behind you washing your hair.

Plan dates in your head, picture how they’d unfold. Think of questions you’d like to ask them so you can get to know them better.

If you need to reconnect with your f/o, imagine new headcanons or decide to take things to a higher level- Engagement, marriage, moving in etc.

[imoga-pride]

Fictoromantic Fictosexual Flag

Ficto- or Ficton-: experiencing attraction to fictional characters.

Combo for @spaceyhufflepuff​

[self-ship-love]

40 Ways f/o’s say ‘I love you’

1. “Don’t worry, we’ll get through it.” 2. “We’ll figure it out.” 3. “Pull over, let me drive for a while.” 4. “I saved a piece for you.” 5. “There will be another opportunity.” 6. “You can cry on my shoulder.” 7. “Take my jacket, it’s cold outside.” 8. “I’ll wait for you.” 9. “Let me walk you home.” 10. “Let me drive you home.” 11. “I’ll put the jug on.” 12. “Call me when you get home.” 13. “Be careful.” 14. “We can split it.” 15. “Come here, you need a hug.” 16. “Do you need me to come and get you?” 17. “Can I take you out?” 18. “Can I kiss you?” 19. “You can have the last slice.” 20. “I’ve been thinking of you.” 21. “I thought of you when I saw it.” 22. “I wanted to tell you first.” 23. “Would you like some help?” 24. “It looks good on you.” 25. “We can do whatever you want.” 26. “If it hurts, it hurts. Let it out.” 27. “It reminded me of you.” 28. “I wasn’t sure which one to get so I got them both.” 29. “I know it’s your favourite.” 30. “You were on my mind.” 31. “I just had to see you.” 32. “It’s okay, I couldn’t sleep anyway.” 33. “I didn’t want to hurt you.” 34. “Look both ways.” 35. “You can borrow my hoodie.” 36. “Feel better.” 37. “You have something on your face.” 38. “It’s a surprise.” 39. “I missed you.” 40. “When can I see you next?”

[self-ship-love]

Imagine

Imagine your f/o grabbing you by the wrists and pulling you close to their chest.

“Hey, come here...”

(Good imagine if you are upset. This always makes me weak tbh.)

[self-ship-love]

Imagine/concept

Imagine finally sharing a bed with your f/o.

You get to cuddle them all night.

Their presence makes you feel safe and calm.

Hearing their soft snores is almost like a lullaby to you.

During the night, they casually drape an arm over your figure and drag you closer.

You mould perfectly together when you spoon.

Villainous/broody f/o’s secretly love being the little spoon. (Mostly when they’ve had a rough day.)

Because you fall asleep first, your f/o likes to tuck you up so that you’re warm & comfy.

Your f/o nuzzling into your neck when you’re the little spoon.

Being able to wake up to their morning face as sunlight peeks through the curtains. They look adorable with messy hair and drool on their face.

Sometimes they mumble in their sleep. You like to leave a kiss on their cheek to let them know you’re still there.

You fall asleep with your fingers intertwined.

They wake up on & off during the night to feel for you in the sheets.

Their morning voice makes you weak. Perhaps it’s super husky and still clogged with sleep.

If you’re staying at their house- they wake up first and have a tea or coffee waiting for you.

You’re not even bothered with waking up early just to put makeup on and fix your hair. Your f/o loves getting the chance to see your bare skin and the rawness of you. In their eyes, you’re glowing.

They insist on a lie in the following morning, which consists of cuddles, face stroking and discussing the dreams you both had.

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[self-ship-love]

Mornings with your f/o would include:

Sleepy spooning.

Sipping your fave tea or coffee & sitting across from each other as the morning rays reach you.

Your f/o making you toast (if they aren’t much of a cook- they end up burning your toast but you hide your amusement and eat it anyway.)

Nose/cheek kisses when you first wake up.

Brushing your teeth together.

Your f/o gazing at you over the top of their newspaper.

Eye contact here & there as you ready yourselves for the day.

Overlapping your hand on theirs as you sip your tea/coffee.

Skipping the coffee and going to a cafe together instead.

Your f/o reminding you to eat breakfast. “Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, love. You need energy and a full belly.”

Dreading going to work/school and leaving your f/o’s world. Gripping each other’s fingers as you mouth your last farewell.

Not wanting to get out of bed. Your f/o throws the covers off and lifts you out of bed/drags you by the ankles.

Your f/o wants you to have a nice day. They will see you straight after your commitments.

[self-ship-love]

Another flustered Imagine.

Don’t think about going about your day, minding your own business when you get a text from your f/o. But it’s not a text, it’s an image - you think, “Oh, a fresh selfie of them! just what I really need.” you proceed to open it while your heart drums at the thought of seeing their cute face...

But it’s not a selfie. It’s a goddamn nude.

Bonus: you’re in public and have to bury your face in your arms so others can’t see how red you’ve turned.