#elfri talk

[thatvulcanfangirl]

them: ‘university is super serious and the professors are super strict, you’ll have to write very well constructed emails and adress them as ‘professor doctor’ or they won’t respond ...’

me: spends +30 minutes writing a decent email to my professor regarding my proposal for my bacherlor paper, because I’m afraid there isn’t enough clinical evidence yet to support my possible research

professor: responds in 5 minutes, using 5 words (’sounds interesting and good proposal’), no punctuation, signs with his first name

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So tonight my mum was looking into a file whist preparing her court hearing (she works in court most of the time to decide fines/penalties over traffic offences). All of a sudden she asks me what 'trans man' means exactly. This because the medical report states 'trans man' and 'male body features', while his ID still states 'female' and his female name.

My parents are pretty open minded and all, but they're not at all familiar and often they're confused. So I explain, and her immediate response was: 'great, now I won't wrongly adress him as mrs during court hearing'. And honestly I've never been more proud.

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So since shopping for new jeans didn't went so well for me (in comparison to my brother, as expected), my mum let me pick one pair of Christmas socks to make me feel better.

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I never get anon asks. Apparently only when I, a non-native English speaker, make a spelling error, christ.

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So now I’ve already got 5 free condoms, and still 0 action going on.

[thatvulcanfangirl]

God, all these comments on facebook about the Women’s march. I want to say that it makes me mad, but it actually makes me really sad. (to the part that I’m almost tearing up, probably in combinating with the huge stress for my exam tomorrow)

I know most people don’t react, and those that do are the most rotten ones (definitely on facebook). But still, it shows the huge amount of work that still needs to be done, eventhough so many don’t (wish to) see it.

It also makes me afraid. Afraid of these fellow belgians believing that we should just shut up. That we’re too stupid to see all’s actually well. That we’re just a bunch of pathetic whiners who can’t get over the fact that ‘criminal’ Clinton hasn’t won. That the country’s only filled with suppressed burqa covered muslimas and far left destructively minded and man hating women. That we should deport all the Muslims. That America’s better off without the awful and bloodthirsty Obama. That Trump’s actually a good choice as president. (I even read someone seriously say that Trump’s totally not a racist, like what)

Since I followed like-minded people (minded like me), I should stay on tumblr. There’s a lot of positivity and hope on here. And I thank everyone on my dash for that. for making me not crash entirely

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My brother just sent me a video of a dog barking Feliz Navidad.  Yes. This is my type of content.

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Juliette still recognizes me. #lifegoals