Repost from @elijahhouseusa • Consider what it does to us if we reduce those who wrong us to the role of unforgivable monsters. Viewing someone as a monster gives that person the power to condemn us to live with the hurting memory of our painful past. We give them the power to keep on hurting us and to stay in control of our lives. Is that what we want? This is not to say that forgiveness should mean looking the other way as if hurts & injustices hadn’t happened. We can’t deny evil or even try to tolerate it without confrontation. “There is no real forgiveness unless there is first relentless exposure and honest judgement. When we forgive evil, we do not excuse it, we do not tolerate it. We look evil full in the face, call it what it is, let its horror shock and stun and enrage us, and only then do we forgive it.” - Lewis Smedes What does it take to overcome bitter wounding & lingering trauma to become a forgiving person? A fundamental key is to accept accountability for our own choices that may have contributed to the our traumatic experiences. As well as being willing to let go of anger toward others for their hurtful actions, and to submit ourselves to the healing power of the holy Spirit to bring peace & transformation into our life. Our anger & unforgiveness are our own. God can use every circumstance of life to bring blessing to us and to write wisdom in our hearts if we respond according to His will. “And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” (Rom. 8:28). God promises victory as we act on our faith & sow forgiveness, pray blessings into our circumstances, and trust in God’s mercy to heal our wounds and provide for our every need. Continue reading this topic here: https://tinyurl.com/3yeyybde #ElijahHouseInc #ElijahHouse #innerhealing #transformation #spiritualhealth #godislove https://www.instagram.com/p/CoIPqn6LScpWNaPZJvzjwnU8KMgnjvTXa-P6bk0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=












