#emailbuddies

[penpalslgbt]

Hello fellow queers!

I'm Eva, 36, lesbian, currently living in Switzerland, looking for a penpal from anywhere, any age, in English (preferred, so I can improve), Italian (native), or German (native).

I am an ecologist, a poet, a nature-lover. I have many interests, from sustainability, painting, history, to arts, lgbt-rights, cats and philosophy, and many more.

I love literature, books of any type, from fantasy to classic, from fiction to non-fiction.

I'd love to start an exchange of handwritten letters - anyone interested?

Submitted on November 15, 2025

[jennylivesbythesea]

Virtual or Real PenPal(s) Wanted

I’m mostly a hermit, finding solace in solitude. Enjoying time in nature is kinda my thing, whether it be hiking or just sitting and pondering in the woods somewhere. Recently, due to personal and worldly circumstances I’ve been more cooped up than normal and would like to take advantage of this time by meeting some rad people! 

I would like to find someone to send letters back and forth, or perhaps email with, discussing random things about our lives and just enjoying conversation together. There’s something about receiving a little piece of someone’s mind that draws me in. 

Don’t have much of a preference on us exactly having common interests, looking more for anyone who can commit to some good old communication from time to time. Tell me a secret, describe your most vivid memory, tell me about your day, or just vent away.

Good or bad, I’ll be here to listen. Feel free to message me on here, or just bite the bullet and begin our journey by sending an email along: [email protected] I look forward to hearing from you :3

[penpalslgbt]

Hello!

My name is Lily and I'm from the mountains! [16/F] Soon to be seventeen. I'm in a small country town that is very unsupportive of me being pan. I'm in my last year of high and would love to meet more members of the lgbt to talk to, especially to continue talking to when I'm out of school.

Here's a bit about me!

I am extremely interested in any romance and love stories, love reading, love baking, and love animals. I used to show dogs and now train them for fun. I'm also an equine person for sure!

I am Christian, which tends to turn people away, but I'm not pushy in any way and would love to meet more lgbt Christian members! It's hard to come by because of the way that most of the Christian community presents themself and judge others.

I would love to find snail mail pals! ♡

Email if interested in snail mail: [email protected] (Not main account, hence weird name. 🥹💔)

Submitted on March 27, 2026

[penpalslgbt]

Looking for more LGBT+ friends.

Hi, I'm Petra, a 33-year old Belgian woman (lesbian). I speak Flemish/Dutch and English.

In my free time I enjoy reading books, listening to music and going to concerts and comedy shows. And I probably watch too much tv. Oh, also a gamer (PS3/4, Switch, arcade and Phone games).

I really like to travel. And I spend way too much money on Lego. 

I’m looking for a Dutch or English speaking person between the age of 20 and 40, doesn’t matter where you live or which sex or religion you have. I don’t know many LGBT+ people in real life but I would love to get in touch with more of them!

Either emailing or (even more preferable) sending actual letters/postcards/mix-cd’s/… to each other would be fine for me.

Contact info:

Tumblr: http://standupsitdownbaby.tumblr.com/

Mail: [email protected]

Thank you for reading till the end and hopefully I will hear from you soon! 

September 14, 2024

[penpalslgbt]

Hi girls

hello, my name is Rocío but I like to be called Sole. i'm 23 years old and I'm from Argentina, looking for some penpal (can also be by email). i'm studying to be a preschool teacher and also to be a high school literature teacher.

my main interests are:

-learning new languages (French,

English and Portuguese)

-reading (the atlas six, evelyn hugo,

daisy jones, piranesi, a little life

etc)

-writing (I published my first book

when I was 19 years old, it's a lesbian

novel lol also a poetry book on 2023)

-taking pictures

-traveling (I'm just coming back to home after living in the US for one year and three months)

-listening to music (lana del rey, mckenna grace, taylor swift, chappell roan, renee rapp)

-coloring

if you are a lesbian or bisexual girl +22 years old, you can talk to me without problem, don't be shy and let's talk about big unknowns of the world or we can also play online games. i'm open to any idea. i want to meet someone kind, fun and with a new culture that can encourage me in these times. i have

a lot of hope in this.

you can contact me here:

[email protected]

October 23, 2024

[penpalslgbt]

Hi, I'm Jenny, a bit out of place with all the younger people, I'm 30.

I just moved back to the Pacific Northwest to heal my heart, soul, and mind.

I love cooking, art, video games, fixing anything that needs fixed, the beauty of the PNW, and taking myself out of my comfort zone.

I'm really just looking for friendship. I was cheated on during a 4 year relationship which I moved 2,000 miles to be in and I have a lot of healing to do. If flirting happens, it happens.

My page is @beast-in-repose. I hope to meet some new people that can stimulate my mind!

January 29, 2024

[penpalslgbt]

Looking for more LGBT+ friends.

Hi, I'm Petra, a 32-year old Belgian woman (lesbian). I speak Flemish/Dutch and English.

In my free time I enjoy reading books, listening to music and going to concerts (Indie artists and singer-songwriters mostly) and I probably watch too much tv. Oh, and I’m a gamer (PS3/4, Switch, arcade and Phone games).

I’m a fan of the USWNT. And I really like to travel. I spend way too much money on Lego. 

I’m looking for a Dutch or English speaking person between the age of 20 and 40, doesn’t matter where you live or which sex or religion you have. I don’t know many LGBT+ people in real life but I would love to get in touch with more of them!

Either emailing or sending actual letters/postcards/mix-cd’s/… to each other would be fine for me.

Contact info:

Tumblr: http://standupsitdownbaby.tumblr.com/

Mail: [email protected]

October 31, 2023

[penpalslgbt]

Hello, my name is Jasper! I am a nonbinary autistic 20 year old who uses they/them pronouns. I am also queer. I live in the SouthEastern United States.

I am in accelerated college courses and work in an elementary school. I will be lead-teaching a classroom for children with disabilities.

I am very interested in disability activism and history, biology, art, music, and poetry. When I'm not teaching or doing homework, I love to write, read, and do research.

I also create ceramic sculptures and illustrate. I specialize in illustrating diverse characters with various disabilities. As for music, I enjoy nearly all kinds. I especially love bluegrass, folk punk, alternative, and classical.

I am very happy with my current partner and have no desire for flirty/romantic communications.

I also do not tolerate people who are bigoted or prejudiced against marginalized groups. I am a leftist and have been doing activism work since I was young.

On a less serious note, I do not have any interest in Taylor Swift, Harry Potter, Stranger Things, or Harry Styles. For my own personal comfort, I also ask that people who contact me do not include any religious quotes or language (including bible verses).

What I would like in a pen pal:

-any gender

-must be at least 18

-I'd prefer if they were disabled since I am as well, but not a requirement

-I speak English but am also semi-proficient in Spanish. It will be easier for me to pen pal with someone who speaks these languages.

-Someone who likes art, music, activism, nature, poetry...

Things I might send in letters:

-recipes

-stickers

-drawings/doodles -artist trading cards -little trinkets

-dried flowers

-poetry/song/book quotes Please reach out to me on tumblr @jasper-stims !

July 12, 2023