LGBT PenPals

Welcome to LGBT PenPals! On this page you can find your new best LGBT PenPal. Submit your info: Name, age, place, picture, interests and hobbies, describe your perfect PenPal, ... Don't forget to also submit an email address or tumblr page info. Submitting through pm/chat message isn't possible.(A submission with a prison email or address won't be posted. Neither will any sexual posts.).

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Hi, I'm Zero and this is my pen pal ad ☆

I'm 17, from the netherlands and I speak English, Dutch & German. I'm a nonbinary lesbian and use he/they pronouns.

I'm a practicing witch and pagan of 4 years or so. I worship a Frisian goddess of battle and forests called Baduhenna. I also work with spirits and herbs and make oils, sprays and charms.

My interests include: cooking & baking, drawing, diys & crafting, jewelery making, reading fantasy & horror books, dressing up, writing shitty poetry and reading tarot and oracle cards. I love anything dark but whimsical.

Music wise I like the cure, fiona apple, kiki rockwell, sofia isella, king mala and other artists. My favorite movies are jennifer's body, the craft, the secret of moonacre and the love witch. My favorite books are a dowry of blood, the locked tomb series, the starless sea, bunny and a day of fallen night.

I'm autistic and I have a condition called FND, which in my case means I have seizures 1-3 times a week usually.

I'm looking to send physical mail. I'd love to send letters, stickers, poems, recipes, jewelery, bookmarks, tea, sweets, tarot readings, spells, drawings, anything really.

I'd love to find someone who is honest and tells me about their life and hobbies. Of course it would be fun if we share interests as well. I would prefer someone around my age ☆

Submitted on July 1, 2026

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I am married (he/his/eun), I am close to 70. I was working economics and human rights. I am (was) a mental health professional: conflict management, body image disorders (anomalies related to body weight, e.g. compulsive eating, etc.), smoking cessation. I help those who are affected in private chat. I am a Christian, I love to selflessly help those in need in my profession. Today I am engaged in gardening. I once lived in the bdsm lifestyle in FLR D/s relationships. Not independently of this, I became a voluntary eunuch (from October 1, 2022) I AM HAPPY CALMED. #Eunuch #Matriarchy #FLR #lesbian love #Love #INFP #marriage and I support traditional social institutions and forms, but in addition to the exercise of personal freedom and sexual freedoms. This is not a contradiction, this is the freedom and integrity of the order and the person. @@w-a-t-e-r-women-and-the-eunuch

Submitted on June 28, 2026 by https://www.tumblr.com/attiscalmedforce

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Hello!

My name is Lily and I'm from the mountains! [16/F] Soon to be seventeen. I'm in a small country town that is very unsupportive of me being pan. I'm in my last year of high and would love to meet more members of the lgbt to talk to, especially to continue talking to when I'm out of school.

Here's a bit about me!

I am extremely interested in any romance and love stories, love reading, love baking, and love animals. I used to show dogs and now train them for fun. I'm also an equine person for sure!

I am Christian, which tends to turn people away, but I'm not pushy in any way and would love to meet more lgbt Christian members! It's hard to come by because of the way that most of the Christian community presents themself and judge others.

I would love to find snail mail pals! ♡

Email if interested in snail mail: [email protected] (Not main account, hence weird name. 🥹💔)

Submitted on March 27, 2026

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Hi

Im Syd but you can call me Sydney I'm a trans fem but I have not transitioned yet and I'm looking for a penpal and a bestie I'm 16 I'm turning 17 in 15 days

Im looking for another trans girl to be pen pals with

My hobbies include of collecting sports cards and making bracelets and listening to music my favorite artist is Megan moroney

My email is [email protected] please text me girlies

Submitted on March 21, 2026

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Yo!

My name is ThatOneGuy (I’ll actually give you my IRL name once we start pen palling it’s just to keep my online alias) and I’m an 18 year old aroace transmasc who goes by he/they pronouns and lives in the USA! I unfortunately only speak English *No sabo kid :(

Some of my hobbies include:

Reading, crafting/DIY/sewing, ZINE’s, FIDGETSS, drawing, chewing gum (FR), thrifting, plays, true crime documentaries, etc…

Main Fandoms:

Bendy, Poppy Playtime, Spider-Man, Venom, Kingdom Hearts, R.E.P.O, FIDGETTS (again), Little Big Planet, and Portals!

I think my ideal penpal would be someone funny and lowkey also introverted like me. I would also like another trans-masc and/or aroace friend as I don’t have many but I’m totally chill with whatever you identify as! I’m also new to this penpal thing so I hope you can forgive that. I’m mostly just looking for a super swagger friend :D

You can reach me either direct messages here or my email [email protected]

Hope to talk soon!

Submitted on March 11, 2026

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Hello!

My name is Serenity, 25, from the west coast of the United States. I speak English and Spanish (although not fluently). I love lesbian culture, reading, writing, art, horror books, movies, The L Word, Dragula, RuPaul’s Drag Race, nightlife, tattoos, piercings, fashion, food, and cats!

Looking for a pen pal that’s also lesbian. Preferably women 30+ but anything above my own age is fine. I want someone to share stories, experiences, and culture with. I would love to hear about your days, and life in general. Bonus if you’re Spanish speaking.

I can do email but would love to swap postcards and snail mail.

You can reach me at [email protected]

Submitted on March 2, 2026

[penpalslgbt]

Hello!!

I'm Raph, a 25 y/o transmasc from Brazil! My pronouns are he/him/they/them.

I'm looking for penpals to exchange art and letters through snail mail 🐌.

I like drawing, sewing, knitting, painting, making zines and lino cuts.

I like video games like animal crossing, breath of the wild and persona 5. I like manga and anime, I collect toys and I love theme parks.

Looking forward to make more friends, specially with other queer people.

If you are interested in exchanging mail, send me an email at [email protected]

Hope to hear more from you!!

Submitted on February 18, 2026

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Hiii! I’m an 18yo transmasc. I use Cham, pronounced kam; short for chameleon, on the internet and I live in Canada :D.

I like cats, sweet things, trinkets, cute things, spooky things, creepy objects, obscure knowledge, and wearing dark and moody clothes hehe. I like playing games like poco, vile exhumed, and the cube escape games! (I love rusty lake). I also like drawing and digital art and literally anything that lets me express my creativity! Im autistic, adhd, and kind of an anxious little guy. Curious about the world and the people in it. I also like deep conversations

My perfect pen pal… hmmm they’d have to be nice and sweet and send me all the cool stuff and lore from where they live! And preferably a woman, I’ve got to be befriending more :). I’m open to anyone else as well as long as we can speak in French or English. Mon français est juste pas fantastique >.< (my French just isnt fantastic)

You can dm me on tumblr @chameleoncatbingus for my email so we can chat abt details :3c

Submitted on February 8, 2026

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Hello, I'm a 24yo (25 next month, I feel old lol) (trans) guy from Poland. I've been feeling quite lonely recently so I decided to explore new ways to connect with others. Maybe not so new because years years ago, I used to spend a lot of time making friends on Tumblr. After all these years, this place seems a little bit strange for me.

I'm an extraordinarily interesting person. In fact, I live a pretty boring life; but I'm okay with this. I like ordinary conversations about small things that happen to us during a day. Maybe you wanna tell about that supposedly insignificant thing that made you smile today?

I'm looking for people around my age. We exchange shorter messages on Tumblr or longer ones via mail. If you're brave enough to give a stranger your address, I can send you a postcard or a handwritten letter.

Bonus points if you're into languages and lingustics. And even more bonus points if you're a speaker of Hindi and/or Tamil language (as I'm learning these two right now and I could use some practise).

(ask me for my email address in a private message)

Submitted on December 23, 2025

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Hiya! I’m Ash (21 enby) from Germany. I’m currently getting back into learning French and would love to have a pen pal to talk to in French (Canadian and European are both fine).

Lately I am indulging in writing fanfic a lot, but aside from that I’m a big fan of video games (stardew valley, Minecraft, halo, Pokémon and much more), drawing, crocheting/arts and crafts in general. I am also a big fan of DnD (5th edition, dungeon master since 2021) and some childhood tv classics like SpongeBob and Ninjago.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, dm me @feralgremlinunion or send an email to [email protected]

Submitted on December 15, 2025

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Hello, woman of the world:

I’m writing from the south, from Argentina, with the quiet — and alive — wish of finding a lesbian penpal: someone who enjoys meaningful exchanges, sustained conversation, and emotional presence.

I’m learning English, and I write with great beauty in Spanish, so our dialogue could unfold in two languages, if that appeals to you.

I’m 30 years old, and I naturally feel drawn to women over 30: women with depth, stories, emotional maturity, and lives of their own.

I am seeking exclusively lesbian women.

I’m open to lesbian friendship, to a romance that begins through correspondence, or to a complex, deep connection that, over time, may become devotion.

I’m not in a rush. I want something honest, tender, and charged with thoughtful sensuality: a relationship that values mind and body, language and longing.

I’m especially attracted to women with life experience: those who carry inner landscapes, sensitivity, and memory.

Women who come from places with many stories to tell, shaped by travel, memory, and belonging.

A bit about me:

I’m a writer at heart, passionate about psychology, aesthetics, lesbian culture, tarot, astrology, and emotional introspection.

I value conversations that awaken the mind and the senses: intelligent, sensorial exchanges that move between tenderness and clarity.

I’m constantly reinventing myself, expanding my horizons, and allowing intercultural experiences to shape my understanding of love and identity. I grow through connection, through learning, and through the presence of women who inspire me across distances and cultures.

If you feel we might have something to say to each other, write to me.

💌 [email protected]

Marianela

P.S. I reply with calm and intention; I value honest, unhurried exchanges. I’m not here for games or empty messages.

Submitted on December 13, 2025

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Hello! I'm Leef, 30 years old and I am looking for a penpal. I do not have preferences as to where you are from or what gender identity or sexuality you have, but you should be at least 25, that would be amazing!

I used to have penpals when I was younger, started as a teen and I am still in contact with some of my old penpals, however, we rarely send letters anymore. That's why I am looking to experience the joy of sitting down, inking a letter, collecting little trinkets to send along and putting a pretty envelope together again.

I prefer long(er) letters over just a few sentences. I want to feel like we get to know each other. Penpals, for me, are possibly friends just as close as the ones living down the street.

I enjoy nature and everything around it. I'm also working in a field close to ecology and environmental sciences. I read a lot, often nonfiction, at the moment a lot of queer fiction, though. I game, I enjoy looking at the thousands of stickers I collected over the years and never dare to use. I collect stamps (grandpa hobby, I know) and I like to cosplay, take analogue photos and love to travel. And writing, god, I love writing.

Feel free to drop me a message over on my account @biologicaloutsider 🌿

Submitted on November 18, 2025

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Hello fellow queers!

I'm Eva, 36, lesbian, currently living in Switzerland, looking for a penpal from anywhere, any age, in English (preferred, so I can improve), Italian (native), or German (native).

I am an ecologist, a poet, a nature-lover. I have many interests, from sustainability, painting, history, to arts, lgbt-rights, cats and philosophy, and many more.

I love literature, books of any type, from fantasy to classic, from fiction to non-fiction.

I'd love to start an exchange of handwritten letters - anyone interested?

Submitted on November 15, 2025

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Hello everyone. I’m August, 28, trans masc with he/they pronouns, and I’m looking for someone to send fun letters too! I’m also down for any type of friendship outside of this, if snail mail isn’t your style. I’m part of a plural system, but that just means you get more friends per person honestly. 

I’ve been struggling with depression so unfortunately I haven’t been super involved with my hobbies, but I’m hoping to bounce back and get back into them. I love drawing and painting, playing video games like minecraft and stardew valley, reading fanfiction (Homestuck, ATLA, Hannibal, Naruto, and several others), writing, and I love to cook and try my best to bake (it doesn’t work out often), as well as watching funny reality tv, Studio Ghibli, cartoons, and documentaries. I also enjoy hiking, camping, and stargazing. Plus I have a calico cat named Velma who I will happily spam you pictures of.

I live in Texas and am pretty spiritual and do my best to connect with my local plants and seasons. I like to collect wildflowers, feathers, bones, and cool rocks I come across. I also collect records and enjoy tarot.

I think it’d be super nice to make a super meaningful friendship with someone where we could build meaningful connections and share our secrets and help each other grow. I’d love a long term arrangement where we can create a lasting friendship. Plus the idea of sending doodles, photos, poetry, CDs, and funny collages sounds super cool.

I’m down for friends of any age, gender, or location, though preference for 18+ and trans/gnc. (Please be aware if you are under 18 I will ONLY be having a big brother/mentor type relationship with you and will ONLY send physical letters if you have a PO box or similar. Practice internet safety, okay?)

Looking forward to your letters,

@attachablepenis

[email protected]

Submitted on October 27, 2025

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Hello! I am a 25yo lesbian, I am from the US. I am looking for penpals (letters or email) because I am missing community with other sapphic people. I have spent many years building independence from my very conservative family and I am starting to feel the loneliness that I once longed for. Sometimes I worry that my circumstances have made me prone to bitterness and anger, but I mostly just try to be good to people.

I am autistic and I quite like systems and puzzles. I work in live event production and I am very interested in board games and tabletop games. I like animation and I am a writer as well. I live in a city, now, which can be exciting. I struggle with dating but I am NOT looking for romance! I just want to have a friendship with a sapphic person— somebody who has some shared experience. I would love to talk with anyone— of any age— who is kind and sapphic. DM or email! :)

email: [email protected]

Submitted on October 24, 2025

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helloooo :), my name solé. i'm 24yo and i'm from Argentina, looking for some penpal (can also be by email). i'm studying to be a preschool teacher and also to be a high school literature teacher.

my main interests are: learning new languages (french, english and portuguese), reading (the atlas six, evelyn hugo, daisy jones, piranesi, a little life, etc), writing (| published my first book when I was 19yo, it's a lesbian novel lol also a poetry book in 2023), taking pictures, traveling (i was an aupair), listening to music (lana del rey, mckenna grace, taylor swift, chappell roan, renee rapp), playing on my switch (animal crossing) and coloring.

if you are a lesbian or bisexual girl +23 years old, you can talk to me without problem, don't be shy and let's talk about big unknowns of the world or we can also play online games. i'm open to any idea. i want to meet someone kind, fun and with a new culture that can encourage me in these times...

you can message me here or email: [email protected]

Submitted on October 20, 2025

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Looking for penpals

Hello, my name is Eosce, I’m a 23nb transmasc looking for penpals I like STEM topics, I also like art and writing which is why I’m interested in finding penpals, it would be fun to write to someone LGBTQ, especially another trans friend. I also like toys, nature, animals, and lucid dreaming! I’m in the US and I move around a lot. Feel free to message! :3

Submitted on July 27, 2025