#emelda

[sketchyskelly-1884]

bweird OCtober day 19: Palette Challenges

wooooooh i coloured in Emelda yayayayayyaa!!!!

[skirtmag]

Tamara Mory wearing the Shaloom Midi Dress in Emelda Dot Print and her pumps and bag are Chanel 

[drcaiman]

In Coco Emelda name’s her spirit animal Pepita. Pepita is a pumpkin seed type food. It also means nugget. Essentially, that giant cat is named Nugget and that is the cutest thing ever!

[sketchyskelly-1884]

bweird OCtober day 14: who/what inspired your oc

hehehehehehehe

i've been excited for this one

first we have ziggy who was inspired by jack the red ranger from power rangers spd and 3d sonic

next we have nova

kinda obviously inspired by miku yyayayaya

then we have cyprus

can you tell genshin stole my life for a while

he's based off cyno, tighnari, and gorou

next is emelda

whos based off the marvolous mrs maisel and my general love for 50s fashion (blame call the midwife)

and last but not least for this (cos i haven't drawn really half my ocs cos theres so many of them that i need to hammer out the design for properly) is harley

who's based off the Harley davidson motor bike and fran from final fantasy XII

and errr heres a list of other ocs and who/what they're based off

luna - 2B

sol - 9s and diego brando

cloud - joker p5

cosmos - komi from komi can't comunicate

astro - corpse husband

comet - makoto yuki/persona 3 male protag

stevie - marina (previously marina and the diamonds)

nyx - hellhounds

edgar - sebastian from black butler and jeeves from jeeves and wooster

scotty - gordon ramsey

jay - double trouble from she-ra princess of power

cameron (cami) - ai from persona 4

kaoru - naoto from persona 4

kitty (katherine) - kanami from persona 4 daancing all night

raphael - the arc angel raphael

garbiel - morpheus

ellie - the ocean, meramids, and seirens

alicia - alice in wonderland/alice through the looking glass books

edmund - henry cavil in the witcher

ezekiel - jon stewart green lanturn and luke cage

linsey - spider gewn

melody - tohr from miss kobayashi's dragon maid

okay i'm done, i have more but eh i'm eepy

[sketchyskelly-1884]

bweird OCtober day 4: underaprechiated OC

Emelda is my 1950s style witch. after raising 3 kids and one divorce she out to have her own little adventure. i wonder what she'll find

just a lil wip

[memelda]

i think this month my prayers have been the most consistent in a long time. not perfect ofc but at least one salah per day. may Allah keep us amongst those who are constantly repentant and consistent with our deen. feeling grateful everyday.

[memelda]

i really think that there’s no such thing as a perfect match in a relationship, in this dunya at least.

i think no matter how compatible two people may seem, there will inevitably be a sacrifice that they have to make. and this is called give and take, or what we call in relationships - compromise.

there will always be differences, because at the end of the day we are still individuals and we come from different backgrounds, upbringings, etc etc, the list goes on. all these made us who we are today. and on top of that, each of us is evolving day by day, whether we want to or not. it is a fact that we as human beings are influenced by our environment. our world is constantly changing, and therefore we are too.

but that’s the challenge right? differences. and then there are millions of questions that arise from this. do we embrace their differences? what differences are we talking about here? context weighs importance too. what, and to what extent, are the impacts that come with those differences?

that’s where communication kicks in and becomes super crucial. and with this, compassion, empathy, respect, basically basic manners and humanity have to be part of the genetic makeup of this communication too.

why i’m writing this is because for the longest time i always had the idea that to be compatible with someone, they have to be exactly the same as me in their worldview, their attitude, their personality, everything. i used to say “i wish there was a man version of me. that would be the perfect partner for me.” hearing that now gives me the ick and it sounds cocky. but to give past self the benefit of the doubt, it probably came from a place of frustration from not having anyone i could deeply connect with, and also from a place of only being able to be comfortable with myself. (ironically, i couldn’t stand being in my own skin either and i hated myself a lot. go figure.)

but i’ve now learned that that is not the case, especially after being in a healthy relationship with someone i consider a best friend and my best companion. he has shown me that differences can be beautiful. it actually adds elements of fun and curiosity to the relationship, and there are always things to talk about. the intimacy of exchanging thoughts, opinions, feelings, and the most random topics — it’s all very romantic actually. it keeps the relationship from being stagnant.

but having things to talk about should not be the only benefit of having differences. differences are a part of accepting and embracing your partner, and most importantly, they are part of the commitment to sustain that desire to learn about them. you and your partner are part of this beautiful companionship, partnership. this is the only time where it matters to prove yourself to someone else — that you are capable of taking care of them because it is your very duty to do so.

and to end this off, this is quiet disease that is infiltrating our modern generation, where the mindset of “why should i prove myself to someone?” and the belief that we owe nothing to anyone are normalized, and where hyper individuality is worshipped as well, which i myself have fallen victim to it too. these are mindsets we must learn to recognize, and tread carefully around, and eventually unlearn.

3 dec 2025

[munchlunny]

as i grown older i notice i stop dwelling and start romanticizing