I honestly think men are confused about the concept of romance and relationships. As if not wanting to get married is a get out of jail free card for human decency. Or refusing to define a relationship (or to use the word at all, though guess what dude, you have relationships with your boss, barista, grandpa) means you can never be held accountable for anything. So often they just can't seem to imagine a middle ground between single and monogamous that includes kindness and respect. (That virgin/whore thing runs deep.)
Wise person in a relationship/dating FB group I’m in, non-attributed per request








