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[asparklethatisblue]

OP literally makes comics that make me bust out laughing even when I'm not in the fandom they're from, but go off I guess.

lmao RIP sorry dude

[heyjudeberry]

Front and back earrings are really fun! Some of them will be like a storm cloud on the front with little lightning bolts that dangle on the back or the front of a unicorn on the front and the back of the unicorn on the back. TBH Claire's has really fun earrings if you're looking for variety and Etsy might be a good place to find things Arolin might wear.

I need them!!!

[nonbinarypastels]

This blog brings me a lot of happiness. I love the humor and positivity that you put out there along with the thoughtful posts you make on more serious topics. Have a happy holiday season if you observe it!

Thank you! I hope you have happy holidays if you celebrate any as well!

[fe-pride-edits]

You all make the coolest edits! Could you please make an ace Python?

Pythace!

[acesinspace]

Aro ace Luke prompt idea: Luke finding a community where's he's able to be open and comfortable about his aro ace-ness and support others in turn (Also, this event is such an awesome idea, aro ace Luke gives me life. Thanks for organizing it).

Prompt posted and open for authors!

You’re very welcome!

[vaspider]

Hello, I run an ace and aro positivity blog that recently got a rather nasty anon over my use of the term lgbtqiap+. While I just deleted it, they did bring up the issue of the i. I know that some intersex people want to be included in the acronym and some don't so I'm not sure what acronym I should be using for the whole queer community.

Default to inclusion. There are many intersex people who do want to be part of the community, and get rightly upset when they are left out of the acronym. If someone doesn’t care to associate with the community, that’s their right, but they don’t get to determine that every intersex person ever isn’t part of the community.

(This is a summing-up of the very sharp commentary of many intersex folks, over whom I do not presume to speak.)

Default to inclusion, if some people of a group don’t want to participate, but some do. 

[jeusus]

Sorry if this is a trade secret, but how to you get that gorgeous gold that you use in your work?

Hey!I don’t really know tbh, I use an orange base and then pick the brown and yellow manually, according to the light and mood of the painting. I use the same square brush for everything. I never use a gold photo/texture, it looks too unnatural. I did spend a lot of time observing gold IRL though, mostly when visiting churches and castles I guess it helps a lot. Good luck to you if you’re also learning how to paint it <3

[realtransfacts]

I was wondering if you had any advice. I came out to my mom as a trans guy about a while back. It took her a long time to learn to use the correct pronouns and stop fighting with me on what is or isn't transphobic. The issue is that I realized that I'm nonbinary. The one time I brought up not being a guy, she freaked out, thinking that I wanted to transition back to my agab. I hate the gendered language she uses, but I don't think that she'll think they pronouns or nb genders are legitimate.

I’m sorry your mom is so unsupportive. You deserve so much better than to have to deal with people like her.

Something from [life outside the binary’s parents page] might be useful? So if you have the time, I would suggest going through the resources there and perhaps asking your mom to read some of the ones you imagine would be helpful for making her understand you and accept you.

If any of my followers have any other advice or suggestions, please feel free to add to this post.