#endogenic safe

[fumifuku]

On someone's dni five times oh my god 😭

[iamgoingtobeatyouwithhammers]

Silly Game Time: WRONG ANSWERS ONLY! What do the letter in SUV stand for?

Special Unclassified Violence

[sburbcoining]

Now Coining: Barking Persecutor!

A barking persecutor is a reference to the phrase "All bark and no bite". This is a term for persecutors who may:

Regularly threaten to or talk about harmful things, despite seldom or never doing them (E.g. "What if I fronted and cut off all our friends?") This can be in a way distressing enough to other headmates to be a persecutor or not.

Play/Make sounds or music in an intentionally or unintentionally distracting way

Regularly brag about harmful actions

These headmates, especially the first definition, can often be formed from intrusive thoughts, paraphilias, etc.

[editedantiendoposts]

pro-endo traumagenic and i just wanna say i rlly wish ppl didnt feel so comfortable asking whether or not we have trauma. thats weird. youre weird for asking about that. esp if we just met. thats WEIRD!!!

(this happened to me ftom another system too mind you)

asking about trauma is the worst thing anyone can do. some systems aren't ready to face trauma so why pressure them by saying "you need trauma to be a system" when they might not even be ready to face trauma if they have any that is the reason for their system

we ended up in a psych ward twice in the same year because of anti-endo bullshit/invalidation around trauma, we dug for shit we weren't ready to look at yet.

stop asking people about their trauma challenge impossible!

asking us about our trauma is sure to get you cussed out because you don't know us personally, we made the mistake of disclosing shit one time and it got made fun of on r/fakedisordercringe

keep your trauma information and history PRIVATE everyone especially online. don't tell anyone details of what happened to you unless you can safely trust them. be careful.

[willard-collective]

Is it getting glittery in here or is it just me??

On a teensy tiny bit different note, WE DON'T HAVE ANY GLITTER AND THAT DEVISTATES ME!

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[editedantiendoposts]

If you use your diagnosis as a way to hate on pro-endos with CDDs and endogenic systems get the FUCK off of my page

“I'm a diagnosed system and I'm a hateful exclusionist ableist toward people with my disorder because they don't agree with me!”

okay uh what do you want a FUCKING cookie or something? A diagnosis doesn't excuse ableism and excluding people with the same disorder as you because you hate the fact they don't agree with you.

[editedantiendoposts]

Having to say "you're so cool please don't be anti-endo" whenever I see a systemhood comic blog shouldn't have to happen. I should be able to find people with my disorder without fear of them being a hateful ableist exclusionist who accuses people of being a hate group that don't have any idea or know what the natural multiples movement is.