see the world through the eyes of an ENFJ.
hi everyone! it's been some time since the last time i posted on here [i have to say that this year has been hectic tho]. tonight i got lost on my thoughts about how the ENFJs see the world through their eyes and it was this morning when i decided to write about it.
i went yesterday afternoon to have dinner with my partner's family, and when i came back home i felt different kinds of feelings after that beautiful time. it has been stated multiple times that ENFJs are people-oriented, commited to bring and maintain harmony inside of their circle and willing to meet the needs of everyone in the group. that makes them extremely interesting to analyse and understand.
the first thing that comes to my mind when thinking about the ENFJs in general is the love they develop for both difficult and simple things. it can be either a person or the birds, ENFJs develop strong bonds with their surroundings and they aspire to maintain them in the long time. as an ENFJ, i do catch myself full of love and commitment towards everything i know [and i can assure that it also creates trouble from time to time]. ENFJs also tend to make people feel welcome and accepted, and that leads them to struggle to meet everyone's needs and take full responsibility of the group. in my opinion, i often find myself desperately searching for a way to make people feel as if they were home, and i assure you we can tell if they feel that way or not.
but that's how ENFJs keep their life happy. i believe this proactivity towards others keep ENFJs happy and gives them a reason to feel useful [not because they have to be useful themselves, but because they always want to make a positive difference in the world]. the love the ENFJs have within their hearts is truly something else... and most of them use that for the best of purposes [which leads them to succesful outcomes].
it's like a cycle that repeats over time: the more i give myself to others, the fuller i feel inside.
ENFJs also have strong values that they would defend to the hilt. that also means they will strive to make everyone respect these values [and i do indeed know that this is kinda wrong, cause one cannot impose their values over another]. this view they have about the world gives them the courage and strenght they need to go the extra mile for the things they want to achieve [so it's usual to see them as leaders, since they also keep harmony and read people very well]. this goes hand in hand with the indecision of making the right choice in order to keep everyone happy and satisfied [i also know it's impossible to do that but if it can be posible, i will always try to achieve that].
with all this said, i know the approach i made may not fit with every ENFJ that could read this. every one of us is different and for that exact reason, there are millions of scenarios that can happen [can we say that i did an outline?? hahah]. i hope this post was entertaining for y'all, and my question for today is the following: do y'all often feel like you fully meet the needs of others? or, on the other hand, you feel stressed for the opposite reason? i hope you're doing well, i love y'all a lot! <3 [also, please don`t forget to drink a lot of water on this very hot and beautiful summer].
