a lot of people have asked me how i learned so many languages, so i'll just talk about it today:
so where i'm from, as long as you go to public school, everyone learns 2 languages. now a lot of subjects are taught in english, but back in my day, everything was taught in malay – history, science, math, geography, everything! so naturally everyone spoke malay.
english was my first language tho because i'm from an english-speaking family.
and then, if you live in the city, there will probably be a lot of chinese-speaking people, so you pick up a bit of chinese as well. i was always kinda hopeless with chinese (even though i'm chinese omg), so the only canto i know is how to order food and how to tell if someone is swearing at me lol. my family speaks some hokkien at home so my strongest dialect is hokkien, although it's still not very fluent – i definitely wouldn't put it on a resume lol.
then comes japanese, which i initially learned because i was a huge anime fan as a kid. learning japanese from anime/dramas is both helpful and unhelpful – it's good for learning little nuances and expressions that might not have an english equivalent, but conversations are actually quite unrealistic, which i learned when i became an exchange student and tried to apply my anime japanese irl. these days i do work with japanese companies, so i'm fluent enough to converse, but my kanji reading is probably only junior high school level and i definitely can't talk about difficult topics like politics or banking (cos i don't know the terms)
korean is also something i became exposed to fairly early, like back in 2004 when you could watch variety shows on the internet (야심만만 anyone??), and while i didn't really pick up the language then, i did find some expressions creeping into my speech (like i started saying "ya" and "omo" a lot). and because i lived with koreans in my uni freshman year, i picked up more korean, and then hallyu just swept over the whole world and i watched more and more variety shows and picked up more korean. because i already know japanese, some aspects of korean language structure became much easier to figure out. but i find myself mixing up languages from time to time lol...
that's pretty much it actually. other languages that i know a little bit of are french, norsk/svenska, italian – i can't really put sentences together yet but i know enough words to understand some signs and stuff (like in the airport or wherever)