Very much not kin related post but I wanna yap about queer stuff
I think it's so interesting and so cool how many attractions can be different from each other and how complex they can be
Within just myself, my romantic attraction changes depending on how I'm feeling gender wise ([fluidflux/genderfluid] when I feel more man/agender/masc I feel like the label pan fits me and then when I feel more nonbinary/neutral/fem I feel like I'm only attracted to (cough lesboy cough)women/nonmen[abro]) it also changes just in general (apothiroflux) so sometimes I'm completely disgusted with romance, sometimes I don't understand it and/or don't care and sometimes I want romance (completely regardless of what genders I'm attracted too)
Platonically, my attraction also changes fluidly or in a more flux way like my romanticism, it can also change based on the environment sometimes
Queer Platonically, I don't care, it doesn't change to any specific gender that I prefer, Pan Queer Platonic if you will lol
For sexualness it can change for different genders and also change in general too! Just like my romantism but i personally don't experience a changing sexual attraction
Even my pronouns are fluid, while anything masc and nuetral will always work, i find myself prefering different pronouns at different times and sometimes i hate pronouns all together, like I don't want anyone refering to me at all
And a special mention to my favorite gender, Amaregender(you're gender changing depending on who you are in love with) this might also be the cause of some confusing attractions for me lol, I heard this one audio from an animation from a few years ago that went "could a guy like you, like a guy like,, could a girl like you like a girl,, could someone like you like someone like me"(I could not find the video, sorry) and a switch flicked in my head and that's when I knew I wanted to be a guys bf, a girl's gf and someone's partner, despite the fact I was sure I was 100% a man back at the time
okay im done yapping, i just think its cool how strange and complex identites can be :3