#apothiroflux

[the-nugget-squad]

Love that animals(mostly thinking of wolves rn) don't really kiss like we do, I wanna just nose boop others and moosh heads together :> it doesn't feel so weird because they don't have lips like us, they just get to be cuddly and nothing gross

(edit: I'm pretty much romance repulsed, if you can't tell that I'm calling kissing gross in this post, that's on you, I'm not an idiot, I know animals are "gross" in other ways)

[storm-of-the-swarm]

Apothiroflux

Apothiroflux individuals may feel, but are not limited to:

-Sometimes liking the idea of romance and sometimes disliking it very much/hating it/being disgusted by it

-Feeling as though you’re Aroflux but only with favorability

-Having issues being able to understand why people like romantic actions sometimes, and other times liking it yourself

[neopronouns]

Could I please get pokemon teams with the apothiroflux flag and this split aroace flag?

[image id: the apothiroflux flag with 6 pokemon over it arranged into 2 rows of 3. from left to right and top to bottom, they are zarude, fraxure, obstagoon, shiny greninja, scovillain, and pawniard. the pokemon all have a thin white outline. end id.]

[image id: a split aro/ace flag with 6 pokemon over it arranged into 2 rows of 3. from left to right and top to bottom, they are ferroseed, tornadus, obstagoon, shiny meowscarada, oranguru, and gothita. the pokemon all have a thin white outline. end id.]

shiny greninja and meowscarada credits!

[flywheels-skytread-conjunx]

It's weird being a hopeless romantic but also romance-repulsed(flux)

Why am I watching a movie and cringing at the romance but also wishing it was me

[the-nugget-squad]

Very much not kin related post but I wanna yap about queer stuff

I think it's so interesting and so cool how many attractions can be different from each other and how complex they can be

Within just myself, my romantic attraction changes depending on how I'm feeling gender wise ([fluidflux/genderfluid] when I feel more man/agender/masc I feel like the label pan fits me and then when I feel more nonbinary/neutral/fem I feel like I'm only attracted to (cough lesboy cough)women/nonmen[abro]) it also changes just in general (apothiroflux) so sometimes I'm completely disgusted with romance, sometimes I don't understand it and/or don't care and sometimes I want romance (completely regardless of what genders I'm attracted too)

Platonically, my attraction also changes fluidly or in a more flux way like my romanticism, it can also change based on the environment sometimes

Queer Platonically, I don't care, it doesn't change to any specific gender that I prefer, Pan Queer Platonic if you will lol

For sexualness it can change for different genders and also change in general too! Just like my romantism but i personally don't experience a changing sexual attraction

Even my pronouns are fluid, while anything masc and nuetral will always work, i find myself prefering different pronouns at different times and sometimes i hate pronouns all together, like I don't want anyone refering to me at all

And a special mention to my favorite gender, Amaregender(you're gender changing depending on who you are in love with) this might also be the cause of some confusing attractions for me lol, I heard this one audio from an animation from a few years ago that went "could a guy like you, like a guy like,, could a girl like you like a girl,, could someone like you like someone like me"(I could not find the video, sorry) and a switch flicked in my head and that's when I knew I wanted to be a guys bf, a girl's gf and someone's partner, despite the fact I was sure I was 100% a man back at the time

okay im done yapping, i just think its cool how strange and complex identites can be :3

[the-nugget-squad]

It sucks being on the aroace spectrum (mostly aro) because how am I supposed to find someone in this world who loves me without wanting to kiss me on the lips or is okay with the fact I become disgusted with romantic gestures from time to time, like what the freak

[the-nugget-squad]

Kissing noises are actually so gross when I know they're from the lips, like a lil *mwah* on the forehead is cute or even on the cheek is fine but why are people so loud when they put their lips together