When I was younger and I began to figure out my sexual preferences/kinks, I was always soooo worried that I was alone because I thought my preferences were so gross, or out of the ordinary.
Of course, It was easy for my to access porn, but to find specific porn/stories to my preferences, or to even meet people who understand me and have the same kinks was never something I thought would happen tbh! Its so comforting to know that I am not alone, and to have people to talk to who are non-judgmental. This is something I wish I had when I was younger, because often I used to think there was something wrong with me. I even would resort to searching online, questions such as “Why do people have ____ fetish” or “Is there any cause for ____” etc etc I am really happy that people of any age who have discovered they are into stuff like this have people to talk to, and are able to see that they arent alone with these particular kinks or interests. I know not all people feel that way when they discover this about themselves, but I know there are a lot that do. I just am genuinely happy that these people can feel safe, and be shown that you are not alone! There are many people who share these same interests <3 and this community is full of so many friendly people~!