You wanna know what one of the hottest aspects to have w someone in the bedroom is ? ( from experience & studying charts )
Im talking soul shaking, bed breaking, leg shaking & beautifully passionate sex is gonna always have
Mars, Venus, Eros (#433) or Lilith aspecting (especially conjunct) the Sun, Moon, or Rising
One of my most passionate flames has been with Lilith + Venus + Mars conjunct his Moon. That man snatched my whole entire soul, like literally I felt we merged souls from the first encounter.
I have my Eros sextile his Sun, Venus, Mars, and Squaring his Moon. Eros touches all his inner planets & the way he described making love to me was like "I knew I was in love with you before touching you, but your body felt like home to me. Best love I've ever made" . Eros is always about our erotic attractions. So for mine to touch his Sun, it gives me magnetism toward his being. Who he is can just simple be a turn on. And is lol.
With Eros sextile Venus I can tell that I awaken his desires to express love romantically, and he can be so so soooo sensual with me. Very touchy feely but like, in a soft way not always sexual. Rubbing me to sleep, touching my face, wanting to hold hands. When we first met he grabbed my hand & asked me to come into the water with him. I would've thought my heart stopped bc I really felt like it was just us there.
Lilith conjunct Moon is our raw desires touching how we feel emotionally, and our vulnerability. In the bedroom this synastry is giving like raw emotional intimacy. The moon person will feel exposed, and magically drawn to the Lilith person. The sex can feel otherworldly. Since you are opening up a part you that hasn't been explored yet, you might actually feel so connected even if you've just met. Mixing the tenderness (Moon) with your raw wild inhibited desires (Lilith).
My Lilith touches his moon and honestly the first time we had sex I swear it felt like I was in bed with my soulmate. Knowing what I know now about our charts, I can tell that there's a chemistry that can't really be explained but when we touch it just makes sense.
What does Eros conjunct moon mean in a synastry? He also has his Lilith conjunct my moon and both of these asteroid conjunct my moon at an EXACT aspect 😭
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Eros conjunct Moon synastry:
Your relationship with this person is very , and I mean very intense lmao. One or both of you will feel connected to each other on a deep level both physically & emotionally. There may be this obsessive, jealous aspect to your relationship (mainly from the eros/lilith person) but the moon person will also be incredibly attached to their partner.
Physical intimacy means the world to both parties. It's likely how they express their affection the best (depending on other aspects). Your love can turn into physical hunger lol. You know what I mean. Desperation even in signs or houses that are comfortable with this intense energy.
Though the problem comes from the fears and erraticism (& erotism lol) of the Eros/Lilith person.
They may have a lot of lust and desire for the moon person but find it hard to express themselves emotionally. Perhaps they're used to physical intimacy as an outlet? Either that or even this scares them. Because it forces them to face what they find uncomfortable, or trigger old wounds.
This post explores the synastry aspect of Eros conjunct Ascendant. This post was requested by @b7717.
Significance
The synastry aspect of Eros conjunct Ascendant signifies a profound and immediate connection between two individuals. Eros, representing passion and erotic love, aligns with the Ascendant, the point of first impressions and outward identity. This alignment creates a potent blend of intense sexual chemistry, visible desire, and transformative potential.
The relationship is marked by a magnetic attraction, with the dynamics influencing not only the intimate connection but also the individuals' personal growth. The expressive nature of this aspect makes the passion between the partners palpable to the outside world, emphasizing the transformative power of their connection.
The Eros person is the one whose Eros asteroid aligns with the Ascendant of the other person.
The Ascendant person is the one whose Ascendant is being aspected by the Eros of the other person.
The Eros person is the one whose desires and passions are stimulated by the appearance, energy, and overall presentation of the Ascendant person.
The Ascendant person, on the other hand, is the one whose outward persona and physical presence are capturing the attention and interest of the Eros person.
There is a mutual exchange of energy, with the Ascendant person embodying qualities that appeal to the desires of the Eros person.
⎯ Eros and Ascendant
Eros is an asteroid in astrology that is associated with passion, desire, and erotic energy. It represents the way we express our sexuality and what we find attractive in others. In synastry, when one person's Eros makes a strong aspect to a point in another person's chart, it suggests a powerful and magnetic attraction.
The Ascendant, or Rising Sign, represents the individual's outer personality, how they project themselves to the world, and their initial approach to new situations. Often referred to as the "mask" or "persona," the Ascendant is the outer layer of an individual's personality, influencing their appearance, demeanor, and how they navigate the external world.
Effects
The effects of this conjunction will, of course, vary according to the sign it is in as well as if the Eros person is falling in the 1st or 12th house of the Ascendant person.
⎯ Traits & Essence
Sexual Chemistry:
Eros represents erotic and sexual energy, and when it's conjunct the Ascendant, there's a strong indication of a potent sexual chemistry between the two individuals. The attraction is not only felt on a deep emotional level but is also evident in the physical realm.
Immediate Attraction:
The Ascendant is linked to first impressions and how we project ourselves outwardly. When someone's Eros aligns with another person's Ascendant, there can be an immediate and intense attraction upon first meeting. It's like there's an unspoken understanding or a magnetic pull that draws them together.
Expressive Desire:
The conjunction on the Ascendant can make the desire and passion quite apparent to the outside world. Others might sense the intense energy between the couple, even if the relationship is in its early stages. This aspect can make the romantic and sexual aspects of the relationship more visible.
Transformative Power:
Eros is not just about physical attraction; it also delves into the transformative power of love and desire. The conjunction with the Ascendant suggests that the relationship has the potential to bring about significant changes in both individuals' lives. It's not just a superficial attraction but one that has the capacity to deeply impact personal growth.
Exploration of Identity:
The Ascendant is linked to one's identity and how they express themselves. When Eros is conjunct the Ascendant, there may be a sense of exploration and discovery within the relationship, both on a personal and intimate level. The individuals may find new facets of themselves through their connection.
Intensity in Interaction:
Interactions between the individuals are likely to be charged with emotional intensity. Whether positive or challenging, there's a sense that the relationship has a profound effect on the emotions and psyche of both partners. This intensity can lead to a more profound connection and understanding of each other.
Balancing Act:
While the Eros conjunct Ascendant aspect brings passion and desire to the forefront, it's essential for the individuals to navigate the balance between the intense emotional connection and the practical aspects of a relationship. Open communication and understanding each other's needs are crucial for a healthy balance.
⎯ Falling in the 1st House
If Eros is falling in the Ascendant person's 1st House and conjunct
Immediate Visibility:
The 1st house is all about the self, identity, and how one presents oneself to the world. When Eros is conjunct the Ascendant in the 1st house, the erotic and passionate energy is immediately visible. The individuals may express their desire and attraction openly, and others might readily perceive the intense chemistry between them.
Personal Magnetism:
This placement enhances the personal magnetism between the individuals. The passion and desire are an integral part of their identity, influencing how they interact with the world and how they are perceived by others.
Bold Expression:
The 1st house is associated with boldness and assertiveness. The Eros conjunction here can manifest as a fearless expression of desire. The individuals may feel comfortable expressing their sexual needs and desires without reservation.
Self-Discovery through Relationship:
Since the 1st house is about self-discovery, the relationship may serve as a catalyst for personal growth and self-exploration. The intensity of the connection can lead to a deeper understanding of one's own desires and vulnerabilities.
If Eros is falling in the Ascendant person's 12th House and conjunct
Subtlety and Mystery:
The 12th house is often associated with hidden or subconscious aspects of the self. When Eros is here and conjunct the Ascendant, the erotic and passionate energy may be more subtle or hidden from the external world. The individuals may share a private, almost mysterious, connection.
Spiritual and Transcendent Love:
The 12th house has a spiritual dimension, and the Eros conjunction can infuse the relationship with a sense of transcendent or soulful love. The individuals may feel a deep, spiritual connection that goes beyond the physical realm.
Unconscious Desires:
Desires and attractions may be more unconscious or operate on a subconscious level. The individuals might be drawn to each other in ways that they may not fully understand at a conscious level, leading to a sense of fascination and intrigue.
Healing and Transformation:
The 12th house is associated with healing and transformation. The Eros conjunction here may indicate that the relationship serves as a vehicle for emotional and spiritual healing. The individuals may help each other navigate deep emotional waters and experience profound transformation.
Hi Gaia! Have you heard of the asteroid psyche? And it being used in love readings?
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I think this asteroid is pretty popular for synastry charts since it shows how both parties can just click or get each other on a deeper psychological level. I think any asteroid can be looked at through a romantic sense as each individual may see value in different things (from physical, emotional, intellectual as well as psychological & ideology wise)
Psyche is also an asteroid of ideals, and mortal beauty but also the human mind. If you have Eros conjunct Psyche in synastry, it's usually an indicator of a "soulmate" or star-crossed lovers bond.
Since Eros fell in love with the human (Psyche) that his mother (Aphrodite) sent him to kill due to jealousy.
Could you tell me your thoughts on Eros conj. Juno in synastry and if it bares any significance, or how it could manifest between two people?
I really appreciate you answering my previous questions as well, it seems like you’re the only one who really gets these things
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Eros conjunct Juno in synastry
It may manifest in a deep unconscious pull towards one another (whether romantically or platonically as eros isn't inherently just a sexual asteroid but one of passion, & drive as well).
A part of you feels as if your partner is a way, a perfect match to your passions (could be artistic or even idealistic, something felt in your bones)
In a romantic relationship, both parties may find it comforting and somewhat addictive around eachother. Touching, feeling or just being in their presence brings a sense of fulfilment.
Depending on the signs they're in & other aspects it makes however, it can range from difficult to highly erotic. If the sign it's in is used to or is comfortable with balancing emotional & primal needs, then this will enhance the spark felt by both parties. If not then there may be some issues with maintaining that balance of reality & passion.
Either way, this makes for an exciting "lovestruck" moment.
Ps it's not that other creators aren't correct, but they just see it manifesting differently. Who you choose to take from may vary depending on your life experiences & current state of mind/ maturity. & For the most part, that's completely fine.
Hey there, can I please have your interpretation on ascendant square Eros in synastry please 🙏
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There is this somewhat instant attraction between you, the eros person is likely to feel both attraction & restrictive feelings as well. On one hand, they find the ascendant person very attractive, but then in the other something about them could be really annoying to eros as well lmao.
Could be a love & hate type of thing. I'd picture this aspect to show up in a lot of tsundere crushes saying; "It's not like I like him!" Then they turn away with flushed cheeks, but it can manifest in different ways as well. There is attraction, but there is also something that restricts them from acting on anything.
It's also important to see if there are planetary aspects that could lead to something similar or like a sign of attention in each synastry chart as well. Or else it's likely not something that will last very long. More like a crush or short-term spark/interest.
Hi what would asteroid Eros conjunct another person's sun in Sagittarius 8th house indicate for the individuals?
I love your blog by the way it's so awesome!!!!!!
Hello!
♀ It can play out quite differently depending on the context.
In a romantic or sexual relationship , both parties have this mutual attraction towards each other. Though because of it being in the 8th house it may be kept under wraps or felt subconsciously. Both will love to eye each other as they have piqued their interests.
It might be that the Eros person will draw the Sun person out of the shadows, initiating contact, but as the 8th house always does, the Sun person will be the one chasing them after this.
In a platonic or work setting, it can also be seen two ways. On one hand there is this sense of rivalry or jealousy that may occur between them. It's likely that the Sun person is the one whom will feel this strongly. It's almost as if Eros is a new "competition" or challenges to get through.
In whatever context,
The Eros person motivates the Sun person to act or do more, to be more of an opportunist. Especially since it's in Sagittarius.
