I thought I’d take the time and talk about something I truly love–animals. There are only two animals that I dare not go near– mice/rats and snakes (okay make that three– mosquitoes too); I don’t like them, they freak me out, but if you like them then all the power to you. Anyhow, back to my point. Animals– as humans, we can learn from their behavior… pets especially. If you own a pet and you are kind to the animal, feed it, give it water, take it to the bathroom, and give it attention, they are loyal. They’ll snuggle you and play with you; they’ll generally want to be around you. Animals show unconditional love in return for the love you show them.
But if you yell at a pet and hit it or kick it, neglect it and leave it to wallow in its filth, they will cower, withdraw, and not want to be around that situation. An odd sense of loyalty (or a chained collar) may keep that pet around, but if they were nature, they’d run away.
We, as humans, are the same way. If someone is there for us when we need them, if they help us through a situation– physical or mental, if they put their well-being on the line to help you then the trust we have in them grows.
A perfect example of this is the time I realized I truly loved my husband. We had been dating a while, and he was the first to say, “I love you.” I had said it back, but my heart wasn’t completely there yet. That was until the day I got sick for the first time with him. He took care of me, helped me, and comforted me without a single hesitation. I knew right then and there that he was it. He loved me unconditionally and in return, my heart enveloped that love on a deeper level then just saying “I love you”.
Adversely, I’ve had people I thought were friends (sadly, I can think of a few people that fit this bill, from old school or church friends, to guys I thought liked me), I opened up to them, shared things with them, and yet something in their lives kept them snappy and mean. No matter how many times I tried to please these friends, they’d treat me unkindly. I couldn’t go to them when I was hurt, I couldn’t confide in them out of fear that they’d use my words against me. My trust waned. My heart closed. I recoiled and fought against them, or left to free myself from their hurt.
Shouldn’t we all be like that? An animal wouldn’t stand for constantly being beat down and neither should we. We should treat others like we would want to be treated ourselves. That’s why the age-old verse is called The Golden Rule… because it’s valuable knowledge that should be heeded: “Do unto others as you would have done unto you.”
Animals know this unspoken rule internally and perhaps we could take a lesson from them. Love all who love you and be free from those who beat you down. And when in doubt, hold a puppy to cheer you up.
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The Unconditional Love of Animals Can animals show us how to be better humans? I thought I'd take the time and talk about something I truly love--animals. There are only two animals that I dare not go near-- mice/rats and snakes (okay make that three-- mosquitoes too); I don't like them, they freak me out, but if you like them then all the power to you.