I euthanized the family cat yesterday. He was still purring and being the same cat as always, but he was incredibly weak from eating barely anything (I don't live at home and hadn't seen him for months). I feel like I decided on my own to euthanize without consulting a vet because I was scared of having a drawn out battle that ended with him suffering. He was 16. The vet told me we could try giving him a shot to stimulate his appetite, get his weight up and go from there, but instead I cried and said I didn't want to see him get worse and I was prepared to euthanize. She said that was a valid option and we did it. But today I think I gave up on him and should have tried and worked to get a diagnosis. I'm torn because maybe he could have had more happy years. But I never wanted to see him suffer and I was worried the process would be stressful and painful. I don't know if I made a mistake.
Hi there, mod @the-kazoo-kid speaking. It sounds to me like you did actually consult with your vet. Sure, you may not have booked an appointment with the express purpose of talking about diagnostic processes and treatment options, but you did in fact bring him in to see a professional. It sounds like you knew your animal, and that you took appropriate steps given the situation.
Trust your vet, they would not have let you euthanize your animal if it wasn't a valid choice. Maybe you would have been able to find a diagnosis, but it's also possible that he would have suffered during that process, and that in the end there wouldn't be much that you could do.
The word euthanasia comes from from Greek, from eu ‘well’ + thanatos ‘death'. You chose to give your beloved pet a calm, peaceful death rather than asking him to endure pain and suffering during a medical process that may not have resulted in any meaningful results and that he had no way of understanding. That is a gift that you gave him. Be at peace with your decision.










