Hello I am new to to FFXIV and so far I like it. I have a quick question. What server do you like to play on and are there any that you didn't like? I am on Goblin and I haven't had issues so far but I am curious.
I’m so glad you’ve given XIV a chance!
As of now, all of my experiences in XIV have been on the Aether data center. I began my Eorzean journey on Adamantoise and have since moved to Balmung.
Balmung is among the most popular servers for those on Tumblr, and it’s hands-down the busiest server in the game. Until very recently, it was considered a “congested” server and closed to any new entrants for months. It's also recognized as a hub for roleplay, but it certainly isn’t the only place to go if you’re interested in roleplay: Mateus and Jenova have pretty active roleplaying communities, but chances are good that you’ll be able to find engaging roleplay on any server if you’re persistent.
I originally left Adamantoise years ago because I wanted to found my own roleplay-focused free company on Balmung; while I am still awed at the sheer number of vulgarities I saw in Adamantoise’s /shout chats that I hadn’t seen since middle school (or have seen again since), it’s a great server with good and fun-loving people. And as you play the game, you’ll find a lot of silly stereotypes based on how other servers are perceived - Balmung’s roleplayers are “special snowflakes,” Gilgamesh’s hardcore raiders are “try-hards”, et cetera - but generally speaking, they’re not based in fact.
I personally enjoy busier servers. Back when I was working overnights and I’d log into XIV at eight in the morning, I loved being able to go onto Balmung and still find others walking through Eorzea, and that’s stuck with me since then. Others feel differently: they like having less competition for things like in-game housing or free company notoriety, and that’s also perfectly valid!
But I’d say to take your time and figure out what feels right for you. Experiment a bit with alts if you’re able, maybe hunt around for a free company or other community, and figure out what helps you feel at home. If you’re still having trouble, I’d be more than happy to help you connect with people looking for new members!