#evpath

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New dictionary suggestion

Malgender: To affirm someones gender identity only to use it against them.

Added.

I had actually been meaning to add this one for a while but forgot to.

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Trick or treat!

Trick or treat!

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Some thoughts on this post:

https://www.tumblr.com/the-transgenda-agenda/806786564074209280/tried-reblogging-this-with-do-you-have-any?source=share

First, if you dont want the perspn you are responding to to be harrassed you probably shouldnt have included the persons name in the screenshot because despite your clear statement that you dont condone harrassment, people may very well harrass them anyway.

Second, these people are not worth your time. They are most likely upset at your inclusing of "transandrophobia", criticism of the label "tme" and possibly even you including t4t as meaning "trans for trans" (this crowd often says transmascs coopted t4t from transfems and its true meaning is transfem for transfem).

The best way to listen to voices from another group is to listen to multiple perspectives from any group and use that to inform your oppinion, not pick and choose. They want you to pick and choose which transfems to listen too. They treat tranfemininity as a binary monolith that all agrees on this subject, and this is a form of erasure of transfems like me who dont fit in the binary boys vs girls narrative.

Good point. Sometimes its just frustrating to spend so much time working on something, and the most frequent feedback I get is criticism of random discoursey talking points. I should get better at ignoring it.

Its also really frustrating how my website has been marked as transphobic :/

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Ok, I have some more suggestions

Gender Void

Queer - I think this term is important to add, even if it was/is a slur.

Other slurs? You may not want to put slurs on the dictionary, which is fair enough. Though I personally tbink that knowing slurs is important so you can remove them from your vocabulary if you use them and recognise possible biggotry.

Finally, rename the sexuality page to attraction to be inclusive of alloace, aro and split attraction people.

Gender Void has been added to the nonbinary page

Queer has been added to the Q page (tbh i have never seen this word as a slur. i know there are some people who have used it like that, but literally every single word that has anything to do with gender has been used as a slur in some context)

im not renaming the sexuality page. as i have said before, this dictionary is primarily focused on gender, not sexuality. if i were to rename it i would end up going down the route of having numerous pages of various aspects to attraction, which isn't really the goal and i dont have the time. (also, due to how it is set up, it would be a pain to redo the name of it). the page already had mention of the difference between romantic and sexual attraction identities; but i have added additional definitions and resources to the page regarding ace and aro people. if anyone has anything else to add to this page, please suggest it. its a broad topic so im just dumping anything tangentially related on this page if that makes sense

im replying to this in the middle of the night before i go to bed. hope this makes sense

thank you for the suggestions. if anyone else has suggestions, feel free to suggest them

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In your slur list you say that h*rmaphrodite is acceptable to say in reference to animals. It is not, as the term originally refered to intersex people and was later adopted by biologists: not the other way around.

https://www.tumblr.com/status-quo-hater/780697950915641344/reminder-that-the-only-reason-hermaphrodite-is?source=share

I was under the wrong impression then. Fixed it.

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You put Mx and Mix down as seperate things. They are the same honourific.

Compared to mr/mister they would be:

Mx - Mr

Mix - Mister

Sorry if I was unclear during my last ask.

Also, you said that the dictionary was consuming you, is that a good or bad thing?

I fixed it. I think.

KInd of both. I've been spending a lot of time on my computer working on it. I always feel like there's not enough. Sometimes, i feel bad about the incomplete pages because they're not done, and I'm always trying to add more and fix everything. But I keep getting distracted. But I still want everything I currently have up because every little thing can help someone at least. But I always feel like its not enough.

[the-transgenda-agenda]

Some more suggestions!!! (Your resource is great)

Mx (Mix) - honourific for enbys

Andor - honorific for enbys, derived from "mr and/or miss"

Enfriend - enby version of boyfriend/girlfriend

And now for some slur suggestions.

Please note, not all of these slurs apply to me.

Also note that these slurs are often used against more people than the definition includes

Tranny - trans people

Transtrender - gnc trans people

Faggot - gay people, traditionally gay men

Dyke - lesbians

Lesbo - lesbians

Futanari - intersex people

Hermaphrodite - intersex people

Shemale - intersex people and trans women

Sissy - trans femmes

Troon - trans people, typically trans femmes

Dickgirl - intersex people and trans women

Ladyboy - trans women

Heshe - Intersex People

Cuntboy - Trans men

Zippertits - Trans men with top surgery

Trap - Trans women and femboys

The next terms are derogatory but are typically used by trans people so might not be a slur depending on your definition.

Pooner - Trans Man who doesnt pass

Theyfab - afab Enby

Theymab - amabEnby

Hon - Trans Woman who doesnt pass

mix/mx have been added.

andor has been added

enfriend has been added

The rest of them have been added to the slur page, which I now feel like has more than enough for it to be accessible via the main S page. Please note that some definitions in the slur page link to unfinished pages in the dictionary. This is because I have been working on those pages recently, but did not want to have to go back and add them in on the slur page later after finishing them (I'll already have to add those pages elsewhere throughout the dictionary).

Thank you for your suggestions. Getting suggestions helps me with figuring out what to focus on in regards to this project. Honestly, it's been consuming me lately.

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Wait, I forgot to add to my last ask, the trans dictionary is an amazing resource and I want to thank you so much for putting time into it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your Amazing!!!!!

Thank you so much :3