Updated Eddsworld HCS!! As a trans gay guy who's entire friend group is queer and trans/is surrounded by them online in gen, yes all of them are as well to me. Please respect that ❤️ It's just a personal interpretation!
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Edd: He/Him - Gay Bear, Transman - Irish (Indigenous), British
Tom: He/Him/They - Gay Bear, Transman, Agender, Aromantic - South African, British
Matt: He/Him/They/Them/She - Gay Transman, Gender nonconforming - British
Gravy isn't stupid. He's not oblivious. He's just too nice. And Sandy was getting tired of him and knew they had to split, but didn't wanna be the one to break up with him. Because he knows Gravy didn't actually do anything, and he didn't know how to go about it. Also because he knew he'd come out as more of the bad guy than ever (as if it would change anything.) He doesn't like feeling guilty, so he makes up things in his head to justify his own actions. Sometimes he has no reason. Sometimes he'd use Gravys kindness against him, and use it as an excuse to say that it couldn't have been a big deal if "he wasn't that mad about it anyway." It's a mix of thinking his rep matters and his own ego, and bad influences. He's insecure. Toxic masculinity. He feels bad for Gravy, but not enough to make him want to take any responsibility. Because he just wants this off his back. This isn't the first time Gravy has been too nice to a guy he's in a relationship with, but this is his first time being the one to break up with one. He clearly, as we know, just let's people walk all over him. He knows he deserves better, but he also just never wants to assume someone is just rude or whatever for no reason, it's just how he was raised. "You never know what's going on in people's lives". But some people are just awful, and nobody put as much care and effort into the relationship as much as he did. Never enough to talk that deep. Sandy hurt a lot because it was one of his longer relationships. Anyway, Sandy isn't a crazy supervillain. He's just a shitty guy, literally a bully. And he cannot handle all of that anyway, Gravy. Gravy doesn't need him (and kinda never did.) He works multiple jobs and works himself to the bone, has a passion for charity work, to help those in need. He is more than just a nerd who's easy to push around, he's a good guy all around. He deserves better and it'll come to him eventually.