#ex fat

[ragglefraggle]

I have this pic of what she said because honestly it’s not fair for you to get blocked like that. I intended to send it earlier but my phone decided to fuck up and not let me save screenshots lol

Wow....I mean wow....thank you so much for sending me this. What a spiteful bitch XD

Number 1: luck? This person thinks that I am 'lucky' to be able to lose the 100lbs? No bitch. I lost the weight because I made the effort, because I didn't give in to my wants and focused on my needs. Luck has absolutely nothing to do with weight loss. The only thing that was lucky about my weight loss was having minimal loose skin.

Number 2: You guarantee that I'll gain the weight back and be a fat ass again...I mean, 4 years and counting of keeping the weight off. And the reason why I have kept it off is because I didn't go on a diet, I changed it. I didn't change the foods that I like, I ate chocolate, crisps, rice, drank milk shakes, I didn't restrict myself in anyway shape or form. All I did was eat less. Hell, I was eating pizza almost every single day and yet I still lost weight.

Number 3: I was writing about me, my experience. I know it's customary for some fat activists to make everything about themselves but my experience has fuck all to do with this person. I am well aware how difficult it is for some people to put the bloody effort in. I know that food addiction and sugar addiction is what keeps us from achieving weight loss. I'VE BEEN THERE. But that doesn't mean that that is how it will always be. You will only change if you want to. Clearly this person has a problem with saying no and putting her utensils down.

Number 4: 'Real Science'? Long term weight loss has no positive affects?...what sources is this idiot reading? I'm genuinely curious because my God she is being lead down some stupidness. Everything has improved from my joint pain to my menstrual cycle.

Number 5: Vegan tutor tots? Well I'm not vegan nor do we have tutor tots in the UK...though some vegan food is banging, not gonna lie. And 500 calories? Funny that because once I stopped counting calories and stressing about them the weight started falling off.

I have literally broke all the rules when it comes to 'fat acceptance/body positivity'. None of the rules apply to me. I am not an anomaly, I am not special, I am not lucky. I put in the effort, I said no to myself, I ate what I wanted and took back control.

I'm really hoping that the amount of crazy people like this in the FA movement is small because this has almost sealed my distaste for this group.

[fatphobiabusters]

I feel like the discomfort about Gabourey is that she has been previously lifted as a fat-positive icon. Personally, I worry the result of her becoming an ex-fat, because I find that their brand of fatphobia is so much worse and so much magnified because they become the 'proof' that it can be 'fixed'. I do hope she remains body positive, and keeps her body decisions her own, and doesn't push them onto others.

I feel the same way, my friend.- Mod Dom 

[ragglefraggle]

So I replied to a conversation about weight loss and talked about my experience as an ex obese person and then this person replies back to me but I guess was so offended by what I had to say that they blocked me as I can't see their post. So...this is how we share ideas and get our points across? By getting highly emotional and blocking immediately? I mean, you could of waited at least 24 hours or something because whatever you wrote in that, whether there are insults or maybe even a sliver of valid arguments, I have no idea, I can't read the bloody thing

[coisassobreolffm-blog]

'Ex fat'

Eu pensei bastante sobre quem seria a pessoa digna pra estreiar a página, e depois de pensar um pouco... A gente percebe que o E. é um bom começo. Não faz muito tempo, menos de 1 ano na verdade, que você não saberia a quem me refiro com "E.". Ele não tinha nada de especial, era gordinho e não tinha muitos amigos. Mas perece que a amizade com um garoto mais novo, o L., fez ele mudar. Ele decidiu ter uma vida saudável durante as férias, comer melhor e tudo isso que você já sabe que a gente faz pra abandonar aquela calça 48. O Tenis salvou a vida desse garoto (e cá entre nós, a nossa também). Durante as férias de verão que ele decidiu mudar, foi gordo e voltou gostoso.

Aposto que você também, quando voltou das férias pensou 'Carne nova no pedaço, e me parece deliciosa.' pra só depois se tocar e perceber quem era... Mas calma, não se anima muito, por que dizem as más línguas que ele não quer ter nada com as garotas que ignoravam ele antes... Ou com as mais novas, mas isso já não é um problema, pelo menos não pra

mim. Por que tanta exigência, E. ? Quem quer muito acaba não ficando com nada... Sua mais nova amiga, -A.

[franberry]

Those stupid ex fat bitches that now are hot and insist on complaining about how ugly and fat they are, just to make other people to say the opposite!...

it doesn't matter bitch! you're soul will be ugly for ever!!!