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if you ever wonder if i’m thinking about you, the answer is no. i’m thinking about gay knights kissing

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harry styles, came out again.

#also very telling he didn’t want the women #never once in my mind crossed he’s bisexual #this just another proof #on top of the millions of proofs we have that he’s gay #exclusively

sethaaron as the dynamic of somebody telling a character to 'call off their dog' so they actually do and the other character actually steps back

#dog coded seth gordon who's listening to me #power bottom aaron ? service top aaron ? either #aaron #seth #sethaaron #not maintagging this because i'm scared #this post is for the weird gay people in my notes #exclusively #orpheus speaks

I have zero gripes with the term transandrophobia or the vast majority of its usage

but

I do think that for all the lip service paid to how radical feminists of every stripe try to enforce the gender binary (which is very true), there's a level of unexamined assumption in the discourse that any transphobia directed towards people who were AFAB must stem from a hatred of transmasculinity.

This often leads to people stating to nonbinary people's faces that the term "theyfab" or the nounified term "TMEs" actually just refers to trans men and transmascs. I should not have to state how this is simply another form of binarism. Yes, there obviously is a fair amount of degendering trans men and transmascs by calling them "theyfabs"; however, the term itself is an explicitly binarist (or exorsexist, if you prefer that term) one. Indeed, it originated on 4chan's /lgbt/ board as a slur for nonbinary people; see this master's thesis from the University of Helsinki as a short dive into the topic.

This isn't to say that transmascs and allies shouldn't discuss how transmascs are targeted by these terms, but there should be more than a passing acknowledgement that the trans radical feminism that has led to the upswing of intracommunity transandrophobia also explicitly denies nonbinary identities, both as "trans men/trans women in denial" and "cis women/cis men pretending to be trans for clout" (for the latter, see the online treatment of F1nnster before he came out as a prominent example).

If we want to end infighting in the trans community and fight for our rights in the broader world hand in hand, we have to acknowledge that the enforcement of the gender binary harms us all, and we have to not just allow people to exist outside the gender binary but actively fight for their right to exist outside the gender binary. Thanks for reading.