#exfriends

[quotesforabookimayneverwrite]

We may not be friends anymore but that doesnt mean I don’t care anymore. Theres this special place in my heart for everyone I’ve ever loved.

[oakensheilded]

Ok so I don't know how bad ya'll think it is so I want you opinion, so one of my now ex friends decided to stop being my friend because of a book I was writing on a different app. What are your opinions on this

[xtheoneyoufeedx]

A part of being content is accepting everyone for who they truly are. Good and bad, or mostly of one. Sometimes the best reaction is just letting go, because you can’t control circumstances or make someone become a better version of themselves. You can not reason with someone who never finds fault within themselves or actions. When it comes down to it, some people are just conditioned in their ways and aren’t willing to change. Time after time again, these people will repeat the same cycle with many different people; with no means of improvement. It isn’t anyone’s duty to make them see or choose which side of themselves to feed. In the end, we can plant the seed, but their life is not our destiny. If they aren’t willing to confront a dark part within themselves, they will never truly transform. Excuses, no matter how real they may be, are detrimental to all that anyone can be. You must own all that you are and strive to pursue, with all the shadows in between. An excuse is just what it is, an excuse. Our actions are still there. Growth is a beautiful and tiresome thing, but often neglected. We mustn’t let others stunt our being, because they are too caught up with their inner deceiving. People aren’t ready to meet the newer and improved versions of themselves. So, instead they cling to what’s familiar and further deteriorate into their current mindset. We can not modify those who choose to stay stuck within their own misery. They will constantly spew their negativity to anyone around and further project bad energy into the world. These people aren’t willing to see the medium between and will always say that their fingers are clean. It is not our job to meet people at their level or try and prove them otherwise. The facts could all be there, but they won’t ever change their stance or meet you half way. The problem is always someone else and we must accept that their fighting their internal self and none of it has to do with us. Why waste your time trying to get a person to see your reality? We all perceive and go on with our lives based on what be choose to see and be. Allow yourself to walk your truth.

embody your reality | xtheoneyoufeedx

[soyouhavetoscream]

Acceptance

Sometimes your best friend is bad for you. Sometimes they are your only friend because they convinced you that you don’t need anyone else. Sometimes when you end a friendship, you’re completely alone. Sometimes when you look back one of the greatest things in your life, you realize it’s also the worst. And that’s okay. Accept the past for what it is and learn to move on. There are better days ahead with better people. 

[who--needs--it]

Are you well?

Life has led us far, of course

And away from “us,” I tell.

Do you feel remorse?

I do, and it’s reared it’s head before

Though “sorry” means little coming from the source.

Was it worry for rapport?

Or worse yet, a fear of being wrong

About words we’d said we’d swore

XXXXX dear, we were friends lifelong,

But my mistakes were grave.

And now that I’ve seen your face again

I can smile at you, and wave.

(A poem written about an old friend long past)

[blueberrypage]

there’s nothing that makes me more disappointed than a friend who can’t even make time for my graduation but that they have the time to drive an hour with their mom to see an aquarium...and then, leave town the next day to catch a domestic flight. To which, our only interaction after that was some reply to a snapchat...no texts telling me you’d see me before you left in the summer...no texts congratulating me...no texts telling me when you got to your cousins or that you’re safe.

psa:

1. don’t make promises if you can’t keep them 2. don’t ever be a shitty friend 3. don’t receive this type of treatment from a shitty friend

im ready to toss this friendship in the bin - thanks 

also, im so done with working on my love life - nothing works. im dying alone. im just going to accept this and fucking hate myself. goodnight y’all

[traveleroftimeanspace]

I have no one to talk to irl I've been having almost constant anxiety attacks it seems like so much is going on at once I'm about to break down. I have no one to confide in so I have to scream into the void if tumblr. Nu biggest issue is I'm broke because I haven't been able to get to my job which is an hour away and no one I know is willing to let me use their car, which sucks because I could pretty much get all the money I need to fix my car in one night but no one is willing . Also I told my boyfriend a lie that I stopped stripping and have a regular job and that a check is coming to me it was supposed to be here yesterday it would have worked out if I had a car I could have the money to make him believe I really got a different job so now that web of lies is going to unravel and sucks because although we gave issues he's the only thing close to a friend I have right now. Which is another issue in itself I was about to break things off with him because the money I had coming in from stripping but now that I haven't been able to work im back to relying on him. Also the only "friend " I thought I had has been back hanging with 2 girls that hate me for no reason and so she's been blowing me off and not inviting me to anything which sucks . I see her post online about going out with them n they comment how fun they are having and whatever and it kinda burns lol 😂 she hasn't replied to me or anything lately either so I'm not sure if she's hopped on the hating me band wagon the other girls are on or not but the way I see it if the people you run with don't like me I should assume you don't either. So I have no friends now which makes me turn more into my toxic relationship i was trying to escape. Oh and I'm pretty sure the friend i was just talking about likes my crush she added him on insta and liked a picture of his , she just left her boyfriend and I'm scared they're gonna have a thing she doesn't know I like him I haven't told anyone because I feared this would happen, that shed like him and make a move because my ex bestfriend always fucked dudes I liked so I was scared and i guess rightfully so I can't be with someone that's been with my friend it ex friends it just will make me to jealous and insecure . I'm hoping they don't do anything thought I really really like that boy but he's a hoe and she's pretty and I'm sad , slick heart broken. I guess that's all I have to get about tonight it just sucks I feel so alone I feel childish I feel sick to my stomach.

[jaimistoryteller]

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Thanks for the bloops, @exfriends! Let’s go with Tichina since I think she needs some love. 

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