#factkin tw

[grians-permits]

I try to be as nice as possible about these things, but if you’re a factkin stop asking me things and get off my blog. I’m tired of answering why I don’t like/am uncomfortable with factkin because I owe nobody an explanation about it. I’m sorry if I’m coming off as harsh, but due to personal trauma and other things, I will never accept factkin on the blog.

I’m not going to post for a bit, I’m sorry. Having to deal with factkin is making me relive bad memories and I can’t handle that today. You can still request, I just won’t get to it until I feel better. I love you all. /p

-Mod Mellohi

[the-psydelicrainbow-kinhelpcafe]

what do you personally think about factkin/fact copinglink and such?

Well, im actually very 50/50 on my stance on factkin and such, fact copinglink seems to be alright since its more for coping than anything, but on one hand, I dont really mind factkin of people who have already passed away (since in my own belief system, I feel when people die, souls of people transfer themselves to new bodies and thus become different people), but on the other hand, I want to be able to respect people that are still alive and realise that they are living breathing people

I really hope this makes any sense to you and that it helps somehow I hope you have a great day!!

-Mod Hobbes🌈 (Shift: Minky Momo💝🌈)

[kincringeemporium]

this cannot be real lmfao... 

[grians-permits]

hey i wanted to say that im verry sorry for making you uncomfortable with my ask i genuinely didnt know that you already answered myquestion becuase i would have aked it and im verry sorry for bring up trauma but that still doesnt mean you got to be so harsh about it

Hey there! I am sorry for being hostile about it, as I already said in this post! Please read through it, and in the future, if you send asks to this blog, don’t bring it up anymore please! /nm

(Also, never say “doesnt mean you got to be so harsh about it” to someone who has gone through trauma. I can be harsh about my boundaries, especially as someone who has had severe trauma with factk!n. I wasn’t meaning to be harsh, I was dissociated and having flashbacks while typing. This is all /nm, just trying to explain!! :D)

-Mod Mellohi

[grians-permits]

Thank you for your concern

Hello all, thank you for your concern. I wanted to make an update. I’ve been taking the day to rest and calm down, and I wanted to apologize for being so hostile. I’ve been very dissociated today and when someone brought factk!n into my inbox, I got upset, and I’m very sorry for being so rude to that anon. It’s a trauma related thing. I won’t go into detail, please respect that, but I have heavy trauma related to factk!n.

I do not, however, want to discuss factk!n in general.

 If you are a factk!n, please don’t bring it up on this blog. If you reblog my stuff, don’t reblog it to any blogs that have anything relating to factk!n. Don’t request things for factk!n, even if you pretend you’re a fictionkin. Please respect my boundaries. I’ll allow you to request and reblog as long as my posts aren’t even close to factk!n spaces. Reblog my posts to a sideblog, like my posts on an alternate account not linked to factk!n, just please don’t interact with factk!n stuff. 

Again, to all those worried, thank you for being concerned, it’s nice to have people care!

tl;dr: sorry for being rude today, if you’re factk!n you can interact, just respect my boundaries and don’t bring my posts to factk!n spaces or interact using factk!n centered blogs.

-Mod Mellohi

[grians-permits]

hey i was wondering why factkin are on your DNI ( im factkin myself and wanted to know why )

I have already explained that factkins make me uncomfortable. I do not, have not ever, and will not ever, want “factkin” interacting with my blog, and I don’t need to explain why I think kinning real people is wrong, as it’s my DNI and my blog. Please get off my page immediately /srs. Goodbye.

To any future factkin who want to interact: Don’t. I don’t want you on my blog please. Factives are wonderful, but factkin make me uncomfortable.

-mod mellohi.

[the-psydelicrainbow-kinhelpcafe]

Hi! So weird question, but I’ve never seen it mentioned or discussed before so I feel like it’s important enough to ask. What do you think facthearted would be? And would it be okay? perhaps it’s just seeing yourself in someone or how you might be if if you were able to completely express yourself, while not identifying as that person? (If you’re confused it’s otherhearted + factkin) thank you

In my opinion, being facthearted would be feeling a close connection or fondness to a real life person without being kin as that person

I think it could be ok as long as it doesn't cross bountires or violate any moral grounds, and always remember that people are people with lives of their own and deserve to be treated as such!

I hope this helps and I hope you have a great day!!

-Mod Hobbes🌈 (Shift: Minky Momo💝🌈 + Freewheelin' Franklin🏜💢)

[kincringeemporium]

1. how is it okay to claim the identities of actual living people? how??? no, it’s not legally considered identity theft, but it is fucking disgusting. 

2. most of the people who find issue with this are mentally ill or are close to someone with a mental illness. you can damn well internalize ableism. 

using your mental illness as an excuse to say that these people’s identities aren’t their own but are yours instead... that’s ableist. okay? please quit perpetuating the notion that mentally ill, disabled, and neurodiverse people are trying to get some kind of free pass to be shitheads. 

3. you DO NOT have the memories of an entirely separate consciousness. whatever you “remember” from “being” pete wentz, brendon urie, dan, and pewdiepie, it’s imagined. your brain made it up. christ. 

4. “you’re just jealous!” is one of the most overused excuses in the fucking book. if we were jealous, why would we be insisting that this is unhealthy and a load of bullshit? 

5. no

6. let me go bleach my fucking eyes