now is a VERY good time to talk about your theories on connor's kinks!!
Well alright. Buckle up loves, because we’re in for a ride. (Low key NSFW, it’s kinks, what do we expect?)
We already briefly discussed his thing for marking, so we’ll make this one quick. His marking thing is purely selfish. He does it because he likes the wide eyed looks he gets from the guys when you hang out together and your makeup couldn’t quite cover the big blossoming purple bruise on the side of your neck and at the base of your throat, or the one you forgot to cover on your collar bone and you’re wearing a lower cut shirt so it peeks out just a little. He likes letting people know that you’re his. (Oh, and a bonus marking - scratches on his back. He loves having your claw marks on him, especially when you’re out for a day at the beach and they’re on display for everyone to see just how well he had treated you the night before.
Moving on to my theory that he doesn’t necessarily have a “daddy” kink. He does, however, like to be called sir. I’ve mentioned this before, but have never touched on it, so here we go. He doesn’t like treating you like a little girl - he just likes being more dominant in your sexual life - which you’re fine with. (But Connor is also a low key switch. It’s not often, but sometimes he likes being taken care of in a way only you know how to do.) But anyway, you’d tried out the daddy think and while it works for some, he found it more arousing when you called him sir. Because it can be such a harmless term in most cases, but when it slipped from you, there was a certain sensual meaning behind it. Especially when you’re pouting. For instance, the first time it slipped out (accidentally) you were at a team dinner that you really weren’t up for, but Connor couldn’t just bail on it. So you went, but you weren’t happy about it. He told you, in the lowest voice possible for you to “behave.” It was a joke, really, he wasn’t really one to boss you around. But your responded with a grumbled “yes sir.” and that lit something in him. You called him sir the rest of the night, seeing the way he reacted to it. And boy did he enjoy hearing it when you were begging him for your orgasm.
Which leads to my next one, over stimulation. (This is one of his punishments as well, mostly when you’ve teased him so much in public. Orgasm denial? Yeah, Connor fucking invented that.) Despite him looking like a selfish lover, he is a pleaser. He’ll eat you out for hours if you let him. He likes the noises you make when he does. But being this way, he sometimes gets carried away, alternating between his tongue and fingers until you’ve come undone at the very least twice on his tongue. And you’re spent, absolute breathless, but he doesn’t stop because seeing you fucked out like this? He needs to be inside you right now. And being already so sensitive from his tongue and fingers, it doesn’t take long to bring you to a third orgasm. You’re seeing stars, it’s so intense, and with you clenching around him, he knows he won’t last long.
This leads to... breeding. Neither of you are sure how this one started or when, but one day - the first time you chose not to use a condom, he really really enjoyed watching himself spill out of you, and then fucking it back into you. It’s not something you guys do often, but it’s one of his favorites (especially in the shower, he likes watching as he drips down your leg and into the drain.
Choking... while he’s wearing his rings (but that’s more for you, you like the rings, what can I say). I don’t even really know what to say about this one other than he loves the whimpers you let out when he does this. How you become more relaxed under his touch. However, he doesn’t like choking you too hard - he hates hurting you, even, or especially so, in sexual situations. So this is more of a light kink - he can do without in most cases, but you enjoy the coolness of his rings on your skin, so he does it for you because like I said before, he’s a pleaser.
Finally, we have bondage (Another punishment). He’s not a ropes guy - like i said, he prefers to not hurt you and he’s not comfortable with ropes. Silk ties though? Sign him the fuck up. He likes tying your hands to the headboard (mostly during his orgasm denial moments). The squirming and the noises intensify when he does this and it’s euphoric watching you lose control just by his touch, and not being able to touch him is noticeably bothering you. And with your legs spread and tied too, this when he brings ice into the picture. Running it slowly down your stomach with his teeth until the water pools at your belly button and starts to slide down your sides. He licks it up, leaves a few more marks on your skin and then finally, finally unties you, allowing you to have your way with him - this is usually when you ride him like your life depends on it, but with one catch - the silk ties are now wrapped around his wrists. And he’s just as desperate to touch you as you were only moments ago.
That’s all, thank you for coming to my TED talk.
