Every single person who has ever been a fan of the Harry Potter universe who is an LGBTQIA+ member or ally has been forced to make a very painful choice.
It's a horrendous position to be in, and everybody is handling it the way that they feel is best, not only to the community at large but for our own personal selves.
There have been a vast number who have chosen to leave the Harry Potter fandom and world behind. That is their choice that they have made for themselves.
It, however, is not the only choice.
There is another group of us, quieter though we may be, who have instead refused to let a bigot (among other things) rip this sliver of happiness away from them.
This group of people is dubbed the "fuck its" in this video: Drarry Vs. J.K. Rowling: A Fandom in Crisis.
I am one of those people. Harry Potter brought me an escape when I had nothing. Hogwarts was my home when I had nothing and no one.
I've tried to mentally separate myself from it in the wake of JKRs BS, however I've basically got a variety of trauma bond with it that's made it genuinely extremely distressing to let go of because its also a coping mechanism I formed when I was 13 growing up in an abusive home. And sure I could work on unpacking that in therapy but that shit's expensive and I have a lot better things to unpack.
I do not and will not purchase any branded/licensed Harry Potter products or merch. I refuse to let JKR have my money.
I refuse to let JKR rip my one single scrap of teenage happiness from me. I will not grant her that. I will not give her that satisfaction. I refuse to let her win.












